how do you choose your friends?

Well everyone one wants friends like that,I want people who are nice and who will stand beside me to be my friends.What i meant from stand by me is that.If/When i make a mistake,they shouldn't accuse me with the others.Instead support me then/when i need it.And then to tell me what mistakes that i have done.

Real friends are those mirrors which reflect our mistakes and the potive feature inside. He should be the one who should be the real one to tell the things in an oppen manner. He should be the who should be the one to realize how deep i love him. I used to select those ones who accept those things and put them in their life.

Whatever you do, Do not believe that having friends is the end-all and the be-all! As a senior, and although I have many acquaintances whom I love dearly I have never had a close friend, because I never wanted one. I've been married to the same woman for almost 60 years, so its not as if I could not have a friend if I so desired. A person without friends has many advantages, such as the ability to choose your own course of action and thought. You are able to keep secrets, and to make up your mind quickly and definitely! As Polonius said: "This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man. Farewell, my blessing season this in thee!"

I don't think we really choose our friends. I think we are around people, come into contact with people that we just jive with. And perhaps they feel the same way. We mesh and start spending time. Friendship comes out of this. I just don't feel like I 'choose' my friends.

I don´t think that I have chosen my friends but rather that we have chosen each other. nd in evver instance there´s afirst moment of talking, of deciding we are interested in simialr things that we would like to talk about agian. Then comes the join each other for a cup of coffee or another such an activity. Frienship is a process and it come with time. Sometimes friends let us down and we must stop it. I like positive thinkers, but I´m aware that all of us have our moments of pain and sorrow so we must be willing to help out if we are real friends.

I agree with you totally. I do not like being around people who make me miserable. I have drifted away from people who have made me miserable. I now stay around people who are positive or who I have a good time with. I am also a quiet person.

Hi, I too have few but genuine friends. During my elementary days, I got one rare friend. Till now we're friends. During high school, I've got lots of them but only few are in my contact since we're from different provinces. During my college days, I've won also one from the school and till now we are communicating. What I've treasured the most are my friends from the church. It's over ten years already since we established friendship. We're in different places now but never in our memory that we forgot each other. They are older than I am. We have 4-6 years age gap however, they're my genuine friends. They are there to support me ever since. They were there extending some peso to add to my allowance. Giving me clothing, shelter but most of all love. I love them. I must say its really good to befriend those nice people who will bring you to the right path not those friends who'll just befriend you only to have gimmicks. We do also have gimmicks and those are all wholesome. Just going to the beach overnight, enjoying the nature, singing together and the like. I love the memories. I'll forever keep them. Choose your friend. As what the saying goes, "Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are."

I am not very choosy when it comes to friends. Most of my friends, I didn't really choose them. Before I knew it, we were already friends. I consider myself quite a friendly person so maybe that is one reason why people also like being friends with me. If ever there are people who intimidate me, then I just deal with them as professionally as I can. And of course, it is really a good idea to keep away from friends who may not be a good influence.

You don't choose friends. They come on your path and are strangers first or acquintances. Time will show if they are a friend (according to how you measure it) or not. Nobody needs lots of true friends, one can live too and feel happy with many acquintances (which is what most people have although they call them friends). With them you can talk, go out, share, laugh etc too. I wonder why you choose people.. you walk around the street and say: you make me happy so from now on you are my friend????? Also a (friendship) relationship is not equal (which it should be) if you only want friends you can admire and who you are proud to know! Sounds to me you don't know what true friendship really means. I also wonder what you invest in your relationship with them.

I do not like hving too many friends . It makes me feel confused. i have to make notes on themes i have spoekn to the first one then to the second. I have to have a notepad. it becomes too much lfe-enduring.It's better to have a chat on my lot site where you can see the words written ,the notes given in order by evry nidividual. Mylot is the best chat program which does not require memory from your side. You can reread other people thoughts again and again.It's very easy. i am bad at memory and this site helps me gather myself together.I think i do not need even the one friend that i meet with occasionally or rarely from time to time. It happens very often that we do not have what to talk about.She repeats the same sentences and talks about the same events. I think i will gve her the opportunity to find a future husband and leave her on her own.

The most simple way to find the right friend is whom cares for us will be our friend for long period. If we start to reciprocate the same love and friendship for them, everyday the bond becomes stronger.

It is important to wisely choose the people you surround yourself with. I prefer people who are genuine, honest and positive about life. Finding a good friend is like finding a jewel and once you find one, treasure the friendship and try to make it work.