while in labor

By C
@ShyBear88 (59347)
Sterling, Virginia
May 1, 2012 3:14pm CST
While in labor and giving birth to your child/children did you allow someone to video tape it or take pictures of it? This also includes to you moms that had c-sections as well. For me no I didn't want anyone taking pictures of me while I was in labor or giving birth to my daughter. After she was born I was okay with my husband taking pictures of me with her or just of her before they had to take her away while I rested for a bit. I'm going to do the same with my second delivery. I don't want any pictures during the labor and delivery process of my child.
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@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Oh my, NO! That would be a very sensitive time for me. I'm sure I wasn't my best in those hours of my life. I would rather just keep those moments in my memory and not on video. My husband didn't even want to be in the delivery room. He knows that I'd be stronger and tougher when he's not there. And, true enough, I made it through fast. I think if he was there, I would be crying and feeling weaker. Even, after giving birth, I still would not want videos taken of me while I'm in the hospital recovering. I'd look really drained and ugly.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
7 May 12
I don't care what I look like after. I didn't look to bad with my daughter. It doesn't bother me once my baby is cleaned off if anyone wants to take picture. I had my husband in the room the whole time I was in labor he would have been bored outside for 16 hours not knowing what was going on. He took pictures after our daughter was born.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
8 May 12
See I'm not a girly so I never care what I look like and neither will the people that see them. I didn't look to bad in any of my pictures that they took with in 5 minutes of my daughter being born. I had short hair so there was no mess. It did take longer before I could hold my daughter because I had an episeatomy so I had to weight for my doctor to stitch me up but she was done really quick and my daughter had to be checked out any ways so they where all done at the same time that's when we had a pictures together. I've never cared what I looked like to much of a tom boy to care even now. If I had paint all over me I wouldn't care still. People see my picture and then a few weeks later see me and they would do double takes because I was so skinny so quick.
• Philippines
8 May 12
I also didn't care much on how I looked after giving birth, and for the whole duration of time that I spent in the hospital. I had to extend a day more because I had fever. But, when I saw the pictures that my visitors took of me and my baby, I was really disgusted with how fat I still look, and my hair wasn't done well, and I didn't bring my make up with me, so I looked so pale. Aghh..
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
2 May 12
This custom is not accepted here at any time. Our thoughts and culture is like that. If there is such opportunity of being caught in photo or video I wont allow it. If my hubby would and like to, I wish him nearby.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
2 May 12
Here in the US its what ever you want to do if its a natural birth. Video cameras and pictures as not allowed in surgery if there is a c section going on. Me I didn't mind pictures after having my daughter but during labor and delivery no I didn't want any. I just wanted the memory between me and the people in that room at that time. Because a mom will never really forget the birth of there children weather there is pictures or not. I'm doing the same for my second child.
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
4 May 12
That is good. You have made right choice to preserve those memories for you always than to have those in photos.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
4 May 12
Photos can't last forever but memories in your head can last as long as your a live.
• Philippines
2 May 12
When I delivered my son in a C-section, I requested the nurses to take pictures with it. it's just so memorable that's why i wanted it to be picture taken. anyway I want my son to see it when he grows up so he would know how i felt upon his coming.
• Philippines
3 May 12
here in the Philippines, It is allowed upon request of the patient. depending on the hospital. but as far as I know, my mom used to have pictures also during her C-section.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 May 12
Here in the US its not allowed at all because its a clean room and those things can get in the way or cause interference with equipment and stuff. So they tell people to take pictures before and after c-section when the mother is back in the room.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
2 May 12
With c section they don't take pictures till after the baby is born not during at least not here in the US. Most place will not allow that. I had a natural delivery so we got to take pictures of my daughter with in minutes of her being born. The nurses cleaned her off and checked her out and then let my husband take pictures cut the cord and stuff. My parents and husband knows what I like so there was only pictures that I would keep and have framed or put up in an album. We are doing the same with our second child.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
2 May 12
i have friends who did this, even taking a video and some take pictures of the baby after there were delivered when the infant was still full of blood.. which i guess they want a memory of it. ( then they post it on fb ) Well, as for my own experience, i never had any picture taking scenes - and i do not want to
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
2 May 12
Yeah no I didn't want any video of my daughter being born. I don't know any kids that would want to see there own birth on film. After my daughter was and cleaned up my husband and dad took pictures of my daughter. Me I didn't care what I looked like so it was find to take pictures of me after having my daughter. My husbands manager when he meet me, he said I looked totally different then in the picture on my husband's desk. I told him yeah that was like 5 minutes after having my daughter and I only lost 4lbs before that picture was taken and but with in a few days that was all gone. Didn't have much of a belly to being with.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
2 May 12
I also don't want to take any picture during the labor and delivery process of a kid. We can take many pictures later as we want when a kid was born and grow up.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
2 May 12
You mean your baby not kid babies aren't consider kids for a while. I didn't want any because I know I would remember it with out having pictures. After labor is over and my daughter was born I was fine with what ever pictures anyone wanted to take. Her first picture was of her after the nurses had cleaned my daughter off and she was in the heating box to help keep her warm. Now we are going to do the same for our second baby. Other wise my husband knows I will kill him.
• United States
4 May 12
Idk who really watchs those videos after they are taken its not really one of those family video night movies so i say not video and some pictures of the baby after she is away from all of it.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
4 May 12
No its not a family night movie thing but most people don't play them as one of those. The parents normally are the only ones that watch that over. Lots of people take pictures sure they might not share it with everyone but the parents keep them for baby books and stuff. See I didn't let anyone take pictures till after my daughter was born. My husband waited for the nurse to clean her off but they where checking to make sure she didn't need to go to the NICU because of her being born a month early and being so small as she was.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
1 May 12
hubby and i have two daughters and for both, i had c sections and they wouldn't allow cameras in the operating room anyways, so i was lucky. i would have hated to have anyone take a video or pics of the birthing process (i hate having my picture being taken at the best of times!)
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
1 May 12
For my daughter it was a natural birth so I told my husband no he had the camara so my husband and my parents that where in the room took pictures of her after she had been cleaned up. I would want the same thing after having my second baby. I didn't look great after having my daughter but that really didn't bother me.
@shaggin (72241)
• United States
1 May 12
My mother took a picture of my son as soon as he came out and they laid him on my stomach to suck the stuff out of his nose. I have the picture and my son is now 4 years old and he saw me looking through pictures on my computer one day and he tells people all the time how he was covered in blood when he was born. I wouldnt have cared if people took pictures while I was in labor as long as they didnt expect me to smile lol. When your in that much pain who wants to have to smile.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
1 May 12
No women would be smiling in labor unless it was easy labor where you don't feel much of anything. Me I didn't way pictures of either me or my daughter till after the doctor was done with me and the nurse had finished cleaning my daughter. My husband respected my wishes with that one. I know someone doesn't care and others that do.