Do you find it hard to remember your dreams?
By jhustinian
@jhustinian (612)
Philippines
May 1, 2012 9:01pm CST
I can remember my dreams clearly as the sunny day, but my older sister could not. She would sometimes tell me she has a weird dream but she cannot tell what really happened in it, she just know that it's weird. She reasoned out that maybe when someone gets old, they find it hard to recall their dreams? I'm 18, but I still can, how about you? Can you still remember them after you wake up?
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Oh that's too bad, some of them are pretty interesting, but it's your opinion so I respect that. Have a good day! :D
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
2 May 12
awww...that's cruel...but would you like to remember them if possible?
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@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
2 May 12
Sometimes I can, sometimes I can't. It all depends on how I wake up. If I'm woken by my alarm, sometimes I wake up in a different part of the sleep cycle, I guess. When I don't get enough hours of sleep, I often have a harder time remembering my dreams. However, sometimes I can remember multiple dreams from one night, sometimes all in great detail. When I do wake up and I can remember, I need to keep thinking about it for a while, so that it can get into my LTM and this is easiest if I write my dreams down immediately.
I keep a dream journal, so all the dreams I can remember are recorded. Keeping a dream journal actually has improved my dream recall. If a person's subconscious is getting the message that dreams aren't important, then they won't remember their dreams very well. If your actions and thoughts are telling it that your dreams are important, then you will have a better chance at remembering.
I love my dreams and I find them very useful in understanding what I'm really thinking and also in working out my problems. Not to mention that they are really fun. :)
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
2 May 12
In the case of a recurring dream, I would just list it as such and refer it to the first time I recorded it, but I would also note any differences that I notice. Recurring dreams sometimes have subtle differences.
Recurring dreams is your subconscious's way of trying to get across an important message. That's why it keeps coming up again and again. To end the recurrence of a dream, record it and try to decode it. Once you figure out the message, then your subconscious can stop telling you about it. I like to use dreammoods.com as a guide. It is an online dream dictionary. Every little detail you can remember should be taken into consideration. Of course, everyone's minds work a bit differently, so no dictionary is going to be spot on, but it can help you get an idea.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
5 May 12
It had never occurred to me that recurring dreams might be trying to inform something but maybe from now on I'll try to understand them better. That sounds cool actually, the website about decoding dreams. I once bought a booklet about dreams and their meanings too way back in elementary but I lost the book somewhere in high school.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Now that you've mentioned a dream journal, I think I may indulge myself with it too. :D It sounds pretty interesting but do you still write the dream when you've dreamt of it before? I usually have recurring dreams, but the details sometimes varies because my subconscious already knows what will happen next so I think 'I' try to prevent some things to happen again.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
2 May 12
Sometimes. I used to keep track of them just to do it. I was told that if you keep a notebook by the bed and go to bed intent on remembering then you will. If you wake up in the nite, record what you were dreaming and also first thing in the morning before getting up. Eventually, you remember them easier.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
2 May 12
Exactly the point! You are half asleep and you jot everything, dreams , random thoughts etc. I've never had a dream that meant much of anything but I have gotten some good ideas on problem solving in my sleep and also remembered some things that I was trying to recall. It's quite interesting when you first wake up and especially in the middle of the night when you "think" you are wide awake but you are not. Give it a try.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Wow, that's a quirky hobby. I've never thought of doing that, I think it's quite a drag doing so. But I think I wouldn't be needing that 'coz I could recall my dreams pretty well. However, I have a notebook and pen that's in my reach when sleeping or preparing to sleep, because sometimes the most interesting thoughts, poems and ideas come flooding to me when I'm about to sleep. ^^
Oh! My bad, i tried that one time! The dream was really interesting so I write everything that I could remember clearly because I planned on writing a story about it! haha! Yeah, now that I remembered doing it, I think it's cool. XD
@luxlyangels (1286)
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4 May 12
Scientists, psychologists and other medical experts have been trying to understand the dream process for decades. While they have made significant progress in recent years the mysterious world of dreams still fascinates us. One of the driving forces behind the study of dreams is the belief that they mean something and have a definite purpose in our lives.
One of the theories that has long been associated with dreams is that they help us to maintain our mental stability, perhaps by organizing our thoughts as we sleep. Others have proposed that the activity in our brains has two levels, one that occurs when we are awake and one when we are asleep. In this theory, our sleep activity is more complex and goes further toward understanding life and the world around us. Psychologist/researcher Carl Jung believed that this division was even dramatic than proposed in the theories of other scientists.
Whatever the purpose of dreams, one part of this process still puzzles scientists and laymen alike. We seem to remember some dreams clearly, while others are “fuzzy” or not remembered at all. One theory suggested that we remember dreams because they help us solve problems that occur in our waking hours. In early studies, scientists tried to find out if the dreams we remember have a practical purpose while those we don’t remember are not as valuable to us.
Early theories tried to find out if dreams that occur during REM sleep were remembered more often than dreams at other times. But the results didn’t make a solid connection in this area. One study showed that young people only remembered about 25 percent of dreams that occurred during REM sleep. Personality testing wasn’t able to establish a group of people who were more likely to remember dreams. Those who recall their dreams more often and more clearly don’t seem to be much different than those who don’t remember dreams as often.
Research into the world of dreams has recently focused on whether we can improve our dream memory. Some individuals have begun to develop techniques that may help us remember details of dreams that we might otherwise forget. In these studies, there is some evidence that “important” dreams are more likely to be remembered. Results also show that some people are able to hold onto details of dreams because they review them immediately upon waking up.
Results of one study show that people who believe their dreams are important are more likely to recall them clearly. If you believe that the details of dreams may be useful to you, it is more likely that you will remember them. Conscious effort to organize the dreams may be crucial to keeping them in our waking memory. In a similar way, dreams that involve trauma or high levels of anxiety may remain with us.
Of course, it’s possible that some people are different in chemical ways that cause their brain to hold onto images and actions that occur during sleep. In other words, some people may be “wired” differently and remember dreams without special effort.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Maybe the reason why I remember them is because I really find dreams interesting, and as much as possible I want to remember them. Maybe that helps me to recall them easily right? Because I give importance to them, on the other hand my sister don't give much attention to her dreams and doesn't really care at all so that might be the reason why she can seldom remember her own. I guess that's possible.
@scratch24 (65)
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2 May 12
I cant remember my dreams. Sometimes I was confuse why im crying and screaming. i think it is not about the age. Maybe it seems that we dont like that dream came true thats why our brain cells automatically delete our dreams.hehehe
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
2 May 12
They don't automatically delete them though sometimes I wish they would. Sometimes I have dreams that are so horrible and so real that I wake up feeling emotionally upset and even after I realize that it was "just a dream", it takes a bit to "feel" that it was. Usually a couple of cups of coffee does the trick. This morning, I woke up going "dam, why me?" I dreamt that I had a flat tire. I'll be getting my new car in a couple of days and I'm not rich...the last thing I need is to buy a new tire right now. So so grateful it was just a dream.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Yeah? I really would like to understand how and why people could not remember their dreams. I experience that sometimes too, and I usually try hard to fit the puzzle pieces that I've recalled from the dream. And I sometimes wish too that I could forget them, especially those horrible ones or something that is so precious that we really want that thing badly and we had it in our dream, and then realize when we woke up that it's all fantasy. Dreams do love to torment as sometimes.
@owenclaudiv (12)
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3 May 12
i sometimes i cannot remember my dream specially when i woke up after 2 hours already, sometimes, if i woke up then i had a nice dream, i tend to sleep again so my dreams will continue.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Haha! I do try to continue my dreams too!! :D My sister was surprised when I once told her about continuing my dreams, but what can I say, it really happens to me when I really want the dream to continue even if I've been woke up. But I can only do that if I'm still sleepy or I've been awake for seconds or few minutes.
@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
3 May 12
Most of the time, I don't. I saw this documentary long ago and it was said there that we have sometimes seven or more dreams in one night, but don't remember most of them. When we wake up, we remember the most recent one. So, in this documentary, the subject of the study was monitored while sleeping and every time he would get to the REM stage of sleep, he would be woken up and made to tell what the dream was about. I sometimes remember dreams that invoked a strong feeling, but sometimes in my dreams my feelings are so exaggerated and I would feel devastated over something that's so mundane in the waking world. I also heard from someone that not remembering your dreams is a sign that you slept well. It is said that those who remember dreams did not have a deep sleep.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Wow! That is interesting, thank you for sharing your knowledge and thought. But I pity the one that had been tested, LOL! What if he really liked what's happening in his dream and the researches suddenly wakes him up, and it's also a drag to be woken up when you're feeling really good when sleeping. Well I must say I'm not really having a nice and good sleep lately, so maybe that's the reason why I remember my dreams pretty well. I even feel sometimes that even if I've slept for good amount of hours, I feel like I didn't get any sleep at all because I still feel tired. And mostly because I always dreamed of something and I would wake up several times at night.
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
2 May 12
Sometimes I remember my dreams, but most of the time I forget them. There are times when I remember them for several days in a row, but sometimes months pass and I don't remember any. What I don't like is that when I remember, it's usually a bad one, I would want to remember my nice ones too.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Oh, most of the answers I got tells me the same thing that the ones that leaves a mark on them are the bad dreams. I guess I'm lucky enough to remember the good ones as well.
@thepooloflust (163)
• United States
2 May 12
Most of the time I can't even remember my dreams after I wake up, unless if it's something really disturbing or if it's something really out there.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
2 May 12
That's not cool, I could sympathize with you. Sometimes there are just dreams that we'd rather forget that remember. I even hate it when those horrible and tragic dreams are repeating.
@Phoenixgirl (2)
• United States
2 May 12
I can remember my dreams although it might take me several hours to remember them. Not all the time though, just some times.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
2 May 12
You're pretty lucky then, my poor sister sometimes takes days to remember one. XD