Break ups

I also have a friend like you have. Dealing with a cheater boyfriend. To cheat is a BIG DEAL! Right after she knew what her ex did to her on her back, she immediately broke up with him even though it hurts at first. It's been a year now since it happened. She's already okay now. She got over him already. So, when is it ok? I don't know. Just that the time will heal.

Cheating on someone when he's in a relationship only improves he's a jerk.We can find that he's unreliable,and that he's not the one she can walk into the sunset with.He does't deserve her love!!!just carry on

I believe cheating is a big deal and should never happen. I agree with you on being single if you want to mingle with other people because it is not fair. When I was in a relationship and was cheated on I was more hurt about the lies and the fact that I could have just been with other people as well. I felt like he wasted my time because I thought it was just going to be me and him. The worst part is he didn't tell me I had to do some digging to find it out and a relationship should not be that way. I feel you need to be honest in what you do when it comes to being with another person. If I am dating someone and they want to be with me and other people I would hope they would just tell me. Let me decide if I want to stay or not don't make the choice for me. When I see people that are in open relationships I don't see a problem with that because they both agree with it. There should be no reason to cheat anymore just be honest and maybe the person you are with may surprise you. I guess that is some kind of thrill for a person to sneak around. I really feel bad for your friend but I hope she can move on. Let her know not all men cheat and it was not her fault he was the one with the issues.