i am happy today!

@shylade (3132)
Philippines
May 2, 2012 3:32am CST
my brother texted me this morning and asking if he can sleep over our house until this weekend. we had our misunderstanding and never had communications over the last 5 months. he said so many hurtful words and even told me that he will never ask for any help from me. it broke my heart for if he only knew how much i value and love him. he often to that to me but he always end up needing my help. so he always eat his words. but anyway, i love him so i texted him back okay but i also asked my husband's permission of course. i am blessed to have a kind and understanding husband. i am really happy that my brother reaches out once again. i will gladly welcome him to our home tonight. mylotters, did you also experience the same thing with your family members? it is like a relief for me that he finally start a communication with me again. i always wish him well.
6 responses
• India
2 May 12
Hello friend, It is a very good news. I am really very happy for the news. It is true. We love our relatives. I also love my relatives. Have a nice day.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
3 May 12
thank you! i am very happy too. we are back to what we used to be and as if nothing really happened. i am glad i just let time healed the wound.
• India
3 May 12
Hello friend, Best of luck to you my friend. Have a nice day.
• Bangalore, India
2 May 12
It is always very good to have communication with our family members because communication is the key to solve all the misunderstandings.again we should utmost care while dealing with complex issues that involves our family members and care must be taken to resolve the family matters as early as possible.There are many side effects of misunderstandings between family members, so avoid it as possible.
• Russian Federation
2 May 12
it is important that there are people who can help you. mot of all there is our family. ;) they can make us feel sorry sometimesbut they are the only poeple who we can trust to. :)
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
3 May 12
i know but there are times that you need to let the time passed like a cool of stage so that all the pain from that misunderstanding will be gone. i am really happy that we are back to what we used to be and as if bad really happened between the two of us. thanks for the response.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
3 May 12
We were a close knit family always doing things together but we have all drifted and hardly keep in touch except at get togethers which I do not attend and to think that I was the live wire organising parties and picnics for the family. My brother and his wife did visit me the other after so many years. I never felt anything. Drift causes that.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
4 May 12
it feels good to be with your family and that feeling of mine never change in time or because of the distance. thanks for sharing.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
3 May 12
Good for you- even though you have lots of misunderstanding and quarrels your bond as siblings would never be broken.. HE'd always come back to your side. It would be nice if he apologized though. I hope you won't have quarrels anymore.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
4 May 12
i do hope to and pray that we will never have misunderstanding again. it is hard to act as if you don't care but i always care for him. thanks for the reply.
• Philippines
2 May 12
I am so happy for you that at least you and your bother can talk again. My brother still ignores me. It's been 3 months now since he stopped talking to me and he's always ignoring. I'm too shy to be the first one to reach out and he might still be mad at me. I wish we will be okay again.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
3 May 12
hi there! i know how you feel and i hope you can patch things up. don't worry in time it will be okay. the cool off stage is really helpful. thanks for the reply.
• Russian Federation
2 May 12
no, i have not had this situation with my parents or relatives. if i do not talk to my father, grandmother and grandrather i won't help them anyway. i ahte them very much. and they will never ring me. if eve it happens i willjust cancel the ring.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
3 May 12
i love my brother and i know i should help him even if he had wronged me. i am just glad he did the first move to communicate. thanks for the reply.