bad behaviour

Hi friend, welcome to mylot. If you don't like some of your friend's habit, you can tell it directly to them in a kind manner and suggest them to avoid such kind of habits in front of you, if they still continues this kind of habits, better to keep distance from them

There are really people who act that way. Just let it pass. Don't bother thinking of them, it won't help.

Personally it really depends on the person. Will they listen to what you are trying to say to try and help them? If you have to go to someone else and ask for help to try and tell them, are they going to help you? Personally there are times when it could be in your Best interest to go and tell someone, or talk to them about it, but if they are not willing to listen to you, then unfortunately nothing usually can help change them as well.

Welcome to Mylot!What constitutes "bad behavior" is all a matter of personal opinion. What may be completly unacceptable for you might be perfectly fine for me or someone else. It's all a matter of choice as to how much you would put up with. Your discussion is so vague and so much of how I would feel depends on just what you consider bad behavior. a few more details??

Maybe you should just tell him or her nicely..Lie start slow, why are you like that.. or something. it is really hard to tell that person without hurting the feelings.

If you can avoid the person, the avoid him. But if you really have to face this person, you can either ignore his bad habits. Or if you are actually friends with this person, then maybe you can tell him about his bad habits and change him for the better :)

Hi mengxiaoai. First of all, welcome to MyLot. The wisest thing to do is - Don't mix up or mingle with people of bad behavior or bad habits. If you have no choice and you really have to come across this person, make sure that you don't spend more time than needed. People are different. We are all different. Oftentimes, we just have to deal with people. The good thing is we always have the option not to get stuck with them.

Well,mengxiaoai,the first thing we should do in such a situation is to talk to the person about the issue,if possible.When it is not so convenient to do this directly,just give him/her some prompts in your daily life about the habits you don't like so much. If the method above doesn't work,the last thing you should do is trying to keep a good mood and ignore the things you dislike,since changing another person is really a difficult thing,and impossible most of the time. Actually, in everyone's life,such situation often happened,and is still happening now.Everybody has something that he/she doesn't like. For instance,I really dislike the living habits of one of my roommates,which really do harms to the room's cleanness.After telling the guy many times,the situation remains the same,and he is still taking what he usually does for granted.Then I gave up persuading the guy and tried to ignore the things he did.After some time,I have a feeling that I have conquered it,though that guy stays the same. Remember,do not never let the bad things of others have any negative impacts on your life.Good mood is the most important thing which nothing can exchange for. Hope you find the way to get rid of such a problem and continue enjoying the beauty of your life.

I have learned that although I may not agree with some peoples behavior and as annoying as it may be, I can't change it. I can only control my own behavior. So I do my best to deal with the person as quick as possible and get away from them. Negative behavior is not healthy & I personally stay away from it. If it's someone you are close to, let them know.