why do i have doubts? does that mean i'm not really in love?
By tippiness
@tippiness (23)
Philippines
May 2, 2012 9:03am CST
I keep on telling my head that i have to trust but, i don't know, with his attitude of not being open to me, I can't keep myself from being distracted and doubtful. I heard a lot of quotations say like "if you are truly in love, you won't get jealous because love involves trust" Yet, How come I've been painfully dealing with this trust issue for months? I mean, since i started opening his facebook account, I dreadfully cannot stop opening it again to see if he has been flirting with other girls behind my back. help! i need feedbacks on this. what should i do?
2 responses
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
2 May 12
Indeed love involve trust, but not blindfolded trust, in a couple relationship things must be mutual, openness is also a must in love, and if you have serious doubts about his fidelity to you, then you should confront him and ask directly, being in doubt and even with a reasonable amount of jealous, is normal too, that does not mean you don´t love him, only be sure that he deserves your love.
@tippiness (23)
• Philippines
4 May 12
copy that. we just had a talk and I think it was all cleared out. I told him about it already. thanks for the advice! :)
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
4 May 12
My best wishes, so, from now on, your relationship will go without any problem, and you will always can work it out problems talking, and being open to each other, this way, there will be no more shadow of doubt in your relationship no more.
@pelgerhuet (136)
• Philippines
2 May 12
maybe you should tell him how you feel,that you need him to be open with you on certain things so that you won't have to doubt him.and show him that you trust him by not opening his facebook account.
@tippiness (23)
• Philippines
3 May 12
yeah. thanks! that's the challenge i've been doing now.i enldlessly ask him questions, and sometimes i already know the answers and Somehow, he never slipped. well hopefully it will work.
