Are you the one who always go to the market?

There is nothing wrong for men, especially husbands, to go to market and shop for their consumptions. Some says that men's ego was lessen when they do chores that usually do by women. I think it is not true. I, honestly go to market weekly to buy stuffs that will be needed in a week's menu. I went there with my wife or even alone. In our house, I do most of the cooking and there is nothing wrong with it. I do understand if my wife cannot help me in the kitchen because our son used to cling on her whenever we are home from the office. They just keep on playing and cuddling. I am happy looking my family happy eating what I prepared for them.

My husband and I will both go to the supermarket to do the groceries. A lot of the times, we;ll both go together, but sometimes, it'll be either my husband or I, who will go. Sometimes, we'll take turns.

Personally I have always felt that a husband should be a Good provider and a help mate. This means helping with the purchasing of the groceries, helping do the laundry, cook food and other chores around the house. The wife as well if she can should be helping with things around the house and buying groceries, etc. but when it is only a one way street usually everyone is not always Happy for sure.

I don't think you will find many husbands who's primary role is to provide the family. Also at the time it still was (mostly) that way in the country where I live, it is (was) normal women do the shopping etc. I don't think you will find much men over here able to do the shopping for one week. Mostly they spend it on stuff you can't cook one single meal from.

hello Will it is impressive for you to do that but anyway definition of husband roles neither the wife should be flexible depending on situation.If your wife is busy lets say because of taking care with kids then its ok for you to do the market, it is now about the family..give, take and understand will work.

Honestly, we like to go to the market together! My husband and I almost make a date of it each week, I make the list and organize everything, but we go together... I think t's fun to do some chores together:)

dear Martin, I can say that my ex is almost a perfect husband. He do the laundry, he cook, went to market, pick the groceries. Take care of his kids, iron clothes and one more- he is more organize than me when it comes to things. But...okay- he's a womanizer- that's it. Sometimes I am thinking, hmnnn...he is doing all those things to compensate with his cheating huh!! I am not saying anything okay ....

Hello friend,You are a very considerate husband.In my observation its the wife who always do this chores in the family.The laundry either,you are one of a kind.very rare man would do things like you.Your family must be very proud and happy about you. As for me,very seldom unless I have something in mind what I wanted to eat during my day off then I would rush to the supermarket. I hope my future husband will do the laundry someday and iron the clothes as well.just kidding friend. But I'm really very impressed!

its been two years now that i am the one who always go to the market and buy some stuffs because me and my sister were not living with our parents but whenever they come home my mom is the one doing it

Well since i live by myself,basically i have to go to the market and take care of myself.I would really happy that if my boyfriend who share some of my responsibilities and we have more understandings.

Hey mobhomeir , I am glad to know that you do a lot for your family. I think it is the duty of an husband to get all the necessary commodity needed for the the kids and his family. The price of each of the material is increasing day by day and we are not able to give the money which they bill to us becuase in most of the families people suffer a tight for the money to meet their expenses. To save little money from shopping we need to ask a little discount for the things we buy and I think it is better to deal such things with a men. Now the world has turned a lot. There is a chance for women to face some bad situations or face of men. Some people used to comment and do malpractices at them and it is not secure to send a girl or wife out for shopping alone.

i can see complain in your writeup, if you feel you are not happy about the situation talk to your wife ,i mean buying food and doing laundry as your permanent chores doesnt sound manly to me

I guess it all depends on your arrangement with the wife. Although, its mostly a woman's role to do household chores, but if your situation demands for the husband to also share the tasks at home, then as partners, both of you must lend a hand. There's totally nothing wrong with the man of the house, doing the groceries. My husband did it a few times for us, before. Simply because I'm not familiar with the place, and that market could get a little rowdy. But, since I stopped working, both of us go to the supermarket to buy our groceries and I do the cooking.