was i wrong ?

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as most of you know me and my daughter have had issues. and the last time she left on her own did not want to stay with me and hubby because she does not want to get a job and does not want to clean or help keep house, she had come to stay with us said she had no where to go and that was the rules we gave her .. she said ok and i had her an interview where i worked and she said she needed 5.00 off hubby for her to have gas to go to the interview so he gave it to her, she got up to leave i said where are you going ? and she said to see landon her 2 year old son.. i said go straight there and back and do not run all that gas out.. from the money her steo dad had given her.. she said ok. i will be back im about an hour.. and i waited and waited and about 6 hours later she returend and went to her room and told me she was gonna live with a friend.. so she got her stuff and was leaving i said what about the interview she said i will be there in the morning.. i said did you go see landon ? she said no.. so she left and the next day she did not show up for the interview and made me look bad.. and did not care.. so when she did call me. i let her have it and told her not to come back to our house until she straightened up and had a job.. well she went weeks wothout calling , thein one day called and ask if she could come get a pop. i said no you cant..... and i told her once again to get a job.. well that was about 2 weeks ago and today she shows up at my door with ehr friend and she comes in and get on my computer still no job and invites her friend in and i let her have it, and i told her again not to come back unless she ahs a job, she keeps saying im getting one but never does, she ask can i fix me a ham sandwich i waited for a minute and thougth about it and i said no i will fix it i dont want you im my kitchen .. so i fixed her and her friend a sandwich and she left then 10 minutes later she was back and on my computer again.. i said you need to hurry up i was on there doing something. she got on her face book and i told her before the first time that she needed to call pam landon's granny she keeps him, i said she want you to call her landon has been asking where is my mommy every day . and it did not even faze her at all, i had to make her call and she called once and siad i cant get her.. and i dont have gas to go see him anyhow.. i was so upset.. i said you have gas to run around and come to my house but you cant see your son.. so i let her have it again and this time i told her if she did not have a job when she came to my door i was not letting her in and i made her get all her stuff today what is wrong with kids today.. she is 21.. and she know better she just does not care.. it may be wrong but i dont want her here until she does better.. and hubby would be really mad at me for letting her in today when i did.. becasue she took his money and did not even care.. so rigth or wrong im thur with her.. i am praying for her on a daily basis and i ask God to watch out for her and keep her safe.. but that's it.. she needs to learn.. the hard way.. what's your take on this situation..