When people stare at me..
By tess_quinain
@tess_quinain (1149)
Philippines
May 3, 2012 6:32pm CST
I hate people who stare at me. I don't like it. I don't stare at people. When people give a look at me, it is like there's something different in me. You could tell whether that is a good stare or bad. But you know, I feel so conscious about it. LOL! If I see someone who looks very different, I just take a short look and I never stare because I know it would give him/her a uncomfortable feeling. In my case, I just hate being stared. ^^
I run out of thoughts to talk about that is why sometimes I write nonsense topics. Forgive me. LOL!
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24 responses
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
4 May 12
I don't like being stared at too.. It's not comfortable being stared at.
So, like you, I also avoid staring at people. If there's something wrong with the person I saw, maybe just a glance will do. I just see to it that I don't make them feel uncomfortable. Maybe if they are not looking at me, I will stare, but then not obvious to others as well...
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Hi madam vi!
I think most of us don't really want to be stared at...specially those kind of looks that feels like we are being read, you know there are some people who look at us from head to toe and we don't know what they are thinking...
But if its my crush who stared at me, hmmmm even if its uncomfortable, it will still give that "kilig" factor! wahahaha
I do stare at people sometimes, I look at them of course because I have eyes! lol! just kidding! Though I stare with other people, I don't give them the uncomfortable feeling, I just stare casually and not too long.
I remember, there are just few people who are just attention catcher...
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Yes, I find it uncomfortable when being stared at and you know they are looking at you from head to toe...clueless what they are thinking if positive or negative...
Wahahaha! of course,it is your crush...even though you don't know what he is thinking...you will be thrilled and giggle a bit.
Staring but not having the intention to make them uncomfortable style is okay...
Of course,we all have eyes! For us to stare!
well yeah there are some who just do that to make you look at them...
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
4 May 12
Hello Tess, I stare them back, with a very MEAN look. sometimes they don't mean to stare unless they like your face or they didn't you look like some dangerous or something. it's human nature to look, that's probably why sometimes i just have a quick look at some one who is pretty with out them looking back lolz
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
6 May 12
It is rather uncomfortable to be stared at, even if they just happen to be staring towards your direction and not rather at you directly. Even if that is the case, it is rather frustrating and really it is kind of unnerving as well. What are these people looking at anyway? It makes you wonder if you have something on your face or they are just being creepy or I'm just being paranoid.
You just never know what people are really thinking when they are going to stare right in your direction. That is why I try and not look in the direction of people even if unintentional because I know how much that it unnerves me. Unless I am talking to someone, I will try and avoid looking right at them directly. Talk about rather creepy and unnerving.
@Newyorker06 (79)
• United States
4 May 12
I really hate it when people stare at me especially if I have never seen the person before in my life. All i can think is what is this persons problem. I used to look away and hope they do the same, but now I just stare right at them. I make sure to fix my eyes into there eyes so that they feel like I m looking right in to them. Then I stare until they look away first and when they do I stare for a couple extra seconds in case they decide to stare back at me. If they do they will see that I am not going to let them win and i eventually stare till they feel so uncomfortable that they have to leave, and yes I also stare at them while the walk away. I am not some really weird person just so you guys know I just really hate being stared at so I make sure that people never do it to me twice. :D
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
4 May 12
haha..i can't stare at them in that way. I'm too shy to stare back at them. But sounds a great idea. I would try staring back at them until they look away. LOL!
@newgirl0511 (166)
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7 May 12
I am currently living here in different country which different from my home and different culture. And sometimes it made me think that I am being stared at my hips with some men. I am not comfortable with that but I can't help them. We have eyes and sometimes it voluntarily sees everything. We cannot close our eyes just because we don't want to see something. And I think that's what man can do and anyone. Not to close eyes.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
4 May 12
If I am stared at, it also makes me feel uncomfortable. Yet I have found a way to deal with this, which is to stare at the person who stares at me. This way it makes me feel good again. When I was young, I did not dare to stare back, but not now when I am much older. lol
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
4 May 12
Staring at people is indeed a very bad habit and I also dislike those who can't get rid of it.I guess that whenever we see someone who looks a little different than most people we have the tendency to take a closer look at that person,but having a look is one thing and staring shamelessly and making that person feel embarrassed is a proof of poor education and maybe even stupidity.Anyway,I think the best thing we can do when we notice someone staring at us is to stare back at such people.Eventually,they will stop staring and mind their own business.
@yel812 (174)
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4 May 12
Just like you said, there are two types of stare, the good and the bad, we can add the judgmental stare to the bad. before I also hate when people stare at me, but I finally realize that they can spend the whole day staring at me but they can not hurt me on what they're doing, so relax xD
@jobfindonline (1744)
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4 May 12
I don't stare too long to anyone for I think it is not good. But if someone is staring me, I don't really mind it. If something is wrong with me or they look at me differently, it is not my business anymore to find why. This is me and I am confident in front of many people and receive countless stares from them.
@akhila834 (10)
• India
4 May 12
in some situations i feel funny when someone stare at me..mostly those people may be strangers.. sometimes they may put their head out from bus.... its really fun to watch such people. But, i don't like it.. when people who know me stare at me by keeping some wrong concepts about me in their mind. I get angry when people do such things..........
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
4 May 12
I feel intimidated by staring. It's just... I don't know why they stare, bexause they don't have anywhere else to watch, they just glanced at me at that very moment or because I look weird or... it's just creepy (the only thing I hate more than this when someone is trying to read what I am reading).
@zarasoc (110)
• Philippines
4 May 12
I sometimes become conscious too when someone stares. And I could get irritated if it is a not nice kind of stare for me. I also do not have a habit of staring on others since I do not want them to get conscious. Better to mind your own business and they should mind their own business too. LOL
@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
4 May 12
Hello there, I have the same feel as you that I don't like to be stared. I find it rude, impolite and irritating. What on earth some people like to stare? Anything interesting? Am I a clown? Fortunately, I have learned to deal with those people. The best solution is ignore them.
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
4 May 12
I also hate people who stare. It is so rude. I also never stare at people. Like you, I just take a few-seconds glance at them. When I am in a bad mood and I catch someone staring at me, what I do is to stare at them also until they become self-conscious. I wait until they back off first before I stop staring at them too. Make them have a taste of their own medicine.
@cloud31 (5809)
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4 May 12
Oh yeah that usually happened especially in some transportation when you're sitting opposite of a person.Or even intentionally when you are just in some crowd.I don't like someone staring at me either.I feel uneasy and thinking there something wrong with me. When I'm getting irritated I just walk the other way or turn to other direction.
I don't understand why some people fond of staring somebody with some meaning on their eyes and thoughts.
I don't usually do that,because I know the feelings of being stared at.
Great day!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
4 May 12
I don't care much if people stare at me, simply i can't see them clearly without glasses. I am short-sighted but i wear glasses when go to the class only, normally i don't like to wear it.
Better you just ignore their look, just be confident as you as.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
4 May 12
I don't like the ones who stare at me. I wounder why they do so. I gets very much irritated whey any one stare at me. Usually I used to move away from such people.