I feel sad and depressed when i should be happy? whatz wrong with me...

It's true that goodbyes are really sad and we can't help but be depressed over a friend's leaving but know that it doesn't end there. When I was younger, we cried our eyes out when friends decided to leave the country or leave the city for a better life (marriage, careers, or education). We promised to write everyday (which came the few months but soon lost because of schedules). We thought that everything would be different and our friendship would no longer be as 'fun'. After several years of us living our own lives (without frequent contact, there even came a time when no word for like years). We have come to settle with our own lives and families. Now that we're older. Could you believe that we enjoy our friendship more? We now have money to visit each other or come over. We now have money to meet up in some place or country for a vacation with out partners or with each other. We can now buy good gifts and explore the world together. We can now 'bond' better because money issues and parental consent are no longer problems. Just remember that each should learn to detach themselves and pursue their lives in order to be better. We should not think that friendship would end because it will not. I have friends with these girls since I was in the first grade! We've known each other for centuries and for sure nothing could break us up as friends. We enjoy each others' company more because we don't have to meet up every day. Therefore we cherish moments and laugh till our heart's content. There's lesser drama and more laughter. So, don't be depressed. It's okay to do so the first few months but recover fast, be motivated to do more in order to earn more and have a better life for you, so that when you guys could meet, there wouldn't be other factors that would keep the enjoyment limited. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

I think it was normal to feel sad thinking that you will not see your friends often just like before. I could feel the same since almost all of my closest friends are working overseas. And I just see them maybe once a year and sometimes after several years. So just keep the effort in communicating with them through online just like through chatting so that you still know what is happening to them and they could also know what has been happening to you.

Depression is very common. It happens to us when there is change, or when things happen in our lives that we are sad about. All manner of reasons. You have lost some freinds and it sounds like they were there for you. Be good to yourself and get some rest. If this feeling lasts several weeks I would see a doctor's care.

I agree with stowyk. Make some new friends, and you will find life is still beautiful. I believe your dear friend feel the same way with you when you have to say goodbye again, but you still have each other in heart. So do the things you want to do, try something new, forget the sadness, face the new day. Have a nice day!