Do you eventually get attracted to someone who listens to you?
By jureathome
@jureathome (5361)
Philippines
May 5, 2012 5:55pm CST
Do you have a friend or a buddy who is always willing to lend an ear and help you out with your troubles?
When the rest of the world is busy with their own lives, this one person unselfishly puts his worries on the side, just to be there for you.
Do you think you'd eventually fall for that person, even if you're not physically attracted? And, if you do, will that feeling last?
5 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 May 12
No at all, most of my friends are girls and they also find a way to listen to me. But I have also a male friend that always there for me whenever I want someone to listen to me. But he is only a friend were been friends for almost 13years now and still were friends no other special relationship. I'm still lucky to have him.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 May 12
I don't have special feelings for him, I don't have siblings he is more a brother to me than any other thing. And we both have same family of our own.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
6 May 12
And, how about him to you?
Don't you think he might be attracted to you, and that's why he's trying to be at your side, all the time.
Or, is he just the type who doesn't have a life.
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@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
6 May 12
You're lucky to have such good friends. And, that male friend, for that long, you've stayed really close with no strings attached -- that's one of a kind.
Why do you think no special attraction happened between the two of you?
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@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
8 May 12
The possibility of developing into a full-blown relationship [being in love] is great as the time element or rather the amount of time spent would surely be a vital factor especially in terms of being prioritized especially in times of trouble as you would realize how one really cares for you.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
9 May 12
It's okay to have friends, but one should know their limits.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
6 May 12
good day jureathome,
with regard to your main topic, generally, it is really possible to fall or get attracted to the person who always there for you especially if he/she really makes you feel how important you are. although when we say generally, be ready to accept that there are always an exemption to the rule. as sometimes, that feeling will not last as you have expected it. that you just have fall because he/she is always present whenever you need him/her. nevertheless, it is still up to you if you will tolerate what you feel towards to him/her. after all, people who has a trait like this are one in a million. as in they are rare to be found now a days.
cheers.
@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Most of my friends are always ready to listen to me even though the world is so busy with their own problems. But then if that someone is the one that I like and when she is always their to listen to me and makes me smile even though everything in my life is a mess. Then there, i guess that is the time that I would really fall in love with her. So i guess I could say I could fall in love with someone who is always willing to listen to me. Good day to you!
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Right, being a good listener would really rank on my top5 qualities for a prospective boyfriend. And, I did find one and now he's my husband.
So, good luck finding your own good listener.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Do you think, if there's that somebody in your life who gives their time and all, to listen to you, they must be attracted to you. And, that they are trying to be at your good side, so they'd get a chance.
