life can be simple if we try to live a perfectly normal life

I believe in the saying "Life is what you make it". I think that just having a positive attitude can help you to live a happier life. It's the same as saying is the glass half empty or half full? or Every cloud has a silver lining. I think the happiest people in life aren't the richest, or the best looking, but the ones that can see the good in everything. That see the glass half full, and can see silver around every cloud. As to the relationship part there are tons of reasons people stay in bad relationships. One, they don't believe they deserve any better. Two, they don't want to be alone, and have to search all over again for a new person. It's a scary thing to start revealing yourself to another person. We stay with who we're comfortable with, even if they make us miserable, they already know our bad parts and are still there. We know they aren't going to turn around and say "You're crazy get away from me". Three, children. Couples will stay together because they don't want their children to go through the divorce. Though most people don't think that the negative atmosphere they are creating is actually worse for the children. There are plenty more reason they stay together, but I think these are the top three, at least in my mind.

I agree with you. I try to live a good life and all that but, sometimes people get sucked into things. i have done things im not proud of in the past nothing majorly bad but still. i think the point is i am changeing and have changed a bunch.