Stop Making Me Tarot Read

@MoonGypsy (4606)
United States
May 5, 2012 11:30pm CST
i have the online friend on fb. i once knew her off line. all she ever wanted me to do was tarot readings on her and her bf. it is 2 years later and i have since moved away. she is still instant messaging me on fb to do tarot readings. what should i unfriend her? i already asked her to stop. i just don't want to be mean.
4 responses
• Pasay, Philippines
7 May 12
We're on the same page; except my aunt is bugging me for more predictions. I read tarots as well. Once, the Queen of Hearts shown to our readings and it was predicted that she will live happily and with abundance. She did; she married a chef in Ireland and have 2 kids living the life she always wanted; with a new house and such independence. But then the whole 7 years she's now bugging me every other day to have her read again what will happen next. I mean most of those who doesn't know this craft; they're so anxious they find it "exciting" to know their future so much. Well I don't. I find it scary at some point. What will the reading turns out to be bad? The blames on me though -_-") Kindly leave her a last warning through personal message (PM) then if she still bothers to bug you regarding that; then you have all the rights to do so. For crying out loud; it is harrasment already ^_^") Happy mylotting about your thoughts.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
7 May 12
wow! you do tarot reading, too. that's wonderful! sorry to hear that you have a leech on your hands, too. was it hard to get your aunt to stop bugging you about it? i agree what if there reading is not so good from their point of view, it on me. that's another reason why i wish she wouldn't take these things so seriously.
• Hong Kong
6 May 12
what about going on ignoring her until she starts a conversation of a different topic? or can you suggest another reader for her? is it you charge no money so she keeps on chasing you? if that's the case, what about telling her that you charge to read now?
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
7 May 12
lol. my bf suggested the same thing. that i should start charging. i would rather try your first suggestion and not talking to her unless she changes the topic. this is because she is willing to pay the money (i know this). she would be fattening my pockets. i just can't do it. it would be tainted then.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
12 May 12
lol i think you should start ignoring her messages. just tell her you have been busy. you have done so much for her already, so just try to do yourself a favor too. trust me you'll feel better when she gets tired of sending you messages because you ignore them
6 May 12
Wow, do you know tarot readings? I really love tarot readers. You cant blame your friend for chasing you. At the first place you let her know about your hidden and amazing talent. It is a normal reaction of her that she always bothers you in facebook because it is the only way she can connect and communicate with you. You can message her to stop bothering you about tarot reading in a kind and begging way. Let her understand that you dont want any tarot reading. Let her respect your decision. Maybe in that way she will realize that bothering you is not anymore a good act. Dont unfriend her easily without saying or explaining your side. it is better to do things wisely before concluding. Talk about it maybe things will turn alright. Maybe this friendly advice will help you and your friend.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
6 May 12
that seems reasonable enough. thank you. i was thinking that most people would say just drop her. i want to do this with some compassion so it's good you understand. i never looked at it from that perspective. thanks for the advice.