Staying on friends house.
By lynpreety
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
May 6, 2012 10:42am CST
My friend invited me to stay on her house next week when my daughter go to the big city to have a two weeks vacation before the school starts on June.
Since I'm the only one here in my big house I can stay with her for any days I want too. But I'm quite not sure If I can stay with her. I'm not used to stay on others house when my house is also near to her. I know her intention is good and she only care for me that I might be lonely and bored without anyone to talk to. I know she also missed me we used to be neighbors before but since she transfer on their new house not so near and not so far from me. I'm a little confuse If I will accept her invitation or not.
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19 responses
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
6 May 12
hi lyn,
If you think your house will be safe if you are away maybe 1 or 2 nights will be fine at least you can have bonding moments with her.
How I wish I can do that more often because it rarely happen to me until today.
happy mylotting
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 May 12
bhaby,
How can you stay away always...when your friend's house are just steps away 
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 May 12
My house is safe even I left for a week I have a nearby good citizen that can look at my house. If you want to have vacation I can offer my house to you with Jai hehe
we can have lots of fun on the beach.
we can have lots of fun on the beach.3 people like this
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
6 May 12
@ jai,
Yeah but still I just had 3 sleep over at your place
And we know each others for 5 years 
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Maybe she just missed you.
I know the feeling, I mean staying in a friends house.
But for me- there is no way that I should stay in a friend's house because all my friends just live nearby (jog away -hahaha)
Why not consider her invitation for one night...
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Maybe she just really missed me, I remember when were still neighbors almost everyday we hang out she sometimes sleep here even few steps away from her house. Her husband wants to move her clothes here 
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@GardenGerty (160624)
• United States
6 May 12
Maybe you can just make some extra time to visit with her and still sleep at your own house if that is more comfortable for you. I like to have time alone at my house from time to time.
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@GardenGerty (160624)
• United States
7 May 12
It will be a really fun break for you I imagine.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
7 May 12
I think I might consider her invitation, I'm always alone here, were the only two who lives here, I get used too but sometimes I can still feel being lonely.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Yea i hope i may have fun selling goods at her mini store.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 May 12
hi lynboobsy I would say go, as it might be fun to see
your old friend again and you would not be lonely . I know'the
feeling that you have, your own home is your comfort
zone and its beloved and familiar to you.But stepping
our of our comfort zone at times is really good for
us.Of course its up to you but lots of times when we
do step out of our own comfort zone and enter into
a different place we find we are really having fun. So think about it a bit/ u
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 May 12
hello ms. hatley how are you today?
Yes I will consider it to stay for a while and enjoy her new place.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
7 May 12
lynboobsy
If the houses of both of your are nearby -- you can choose to stay in your house during night times but visit her during day time. spend time with her in that house and return to your house for night stay.
this will take care of safety of your house also.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Hmmm, nice idea ravisivan, only one ride from my house which is only 15mins to take. Thanks
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
7 May 12
I have done like that in Chennai on a few occasions and that is why I was able to suggest this idea to you. have an excellent day.
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@edisonbanglos (389)
• Philippines
6 May 12
maybe you may reverse it.. try to invite her to stay with you in your house :))
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Yhea I will and maybe and let see if I might enjoy selling at her store.
@edisonbanglos (389)
• Philippines
6 May 12
i see.. take her invitation or let her know why you also have to stay in your house.. that's the option :))
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
6 May 12
There are a few homes of friends and relatives that I enjoy staying at the others I am like you...my younger sisters home I love staying with her...my best friend I also like staying with...but my brother or older sister I don't like staying with....I don't feel as comfortable at their houses.....You just might enjoy yourself.....I don't like staying away from home very long though....except when I visit my children.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Yhea me too when I'm visiting my ex house in the big city I'm not comfortable anymore, I'm more good spending my time in my friends house.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 May 12
You could always tell her you appreciate the offer and would enjoy taking her up on it but arent' sure about it as you're not used to staying with other people and wouldn't want to "put her out" or do anything "disprespectful." Maybe instead she can visit you, or you could switch it up where you stay with her two or three days and she stays with you two or three days?
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Hi'
She can't stay with me because she has a mini store to manage, but maybe I can go there at daytime and go back to my house at night time. Thanks...
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Maybe you should, as long as someone guards your house in case of emergency. I think it is a good idea, anyway you don't have anyone else at home and it might be boring. If you are with your friend, it would be fun.
I think it is a good idea, anyway you don't have anyone else at home and it might be boring. If you are with your friend, it would be fun.1 person likes this
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
8 May 12
My neighbors will took care of my house we live in a apartment type and he has a mini store beside me that sometimes open until 2am. That's why I don't have much problem with that. Thanks
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
7 May 12
She has a family and they were my friends too from her husband to her children. And most of the time they are all going to work that's why she is always alone everyday.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
7 May 12
So, it's not a problem to stay there after all. Just don't overstay my friend. 
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
6 May 12
Well, I think if your friend has invited you to stay in her home, will certainly have the first reasoned and in doing so came to the conclusion, to have made the right choice in herr opinion. At least that is how I see it.
The fact that you might get bored staying at home alone, well this is a factor in your staff, I would like for example. Only thing, not living in the house of my property, I believe that my freedom would be somewhat limited. However, if you like, I would accept gladly. It seems to me, in my view, a mutual exchange of favors.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Your right I might get bored, I might consider it once there is no harm in trying . Thanks
. Thanks
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
6 May 12
If you're hesitant, try it for a night. And, if you get to like it, then you can always extend, depending on your agreement.
Then, perhaps, you can also invite her over to join you at your house.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 May 12
yhea maybe I will try for a night, she can't stay here because she own a little store to manage.
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@ryanrems (3)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Hi Lyn,
I recommend that you accept the offer. There are a lot of advantages in accepting such offer aside from company, you will also be learning a lot from her attitudes. You will be learning how your friend react to her natural environment as well as how she behaves to her significant others. I believe that a person's real personality can only be determine in its natural habitat.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 May 12
We are fiends for almost 4 years now she is much older to me, and I know most of her attitudes, she is like a older sister to me.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Welcome to mylot kalyan...
Yes I might go with her invitation.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Well if you are doubtful of what to do, better opt to what will make you comfortable and happy...
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
7 May 12
I don't think you need to deny it as long as you got a genuine reason behind it. Few things you need to consider is that, how many people are there at your friend's place and how inconvenient to them with your presence. Also, if you got a better family atmosphere and is a close friend of your's, you can accept her invitation and make it a joyful and rememberable experience for you and your friend. The final decision is upto you and you only know how good your frind is.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
7 May 12
That's depend on you.When my sisters leave to vacation i am alone in my sister's house and sometimes i am scared alone but later i am not.. i am confident to live but now i have little sister with me so i am not alone.
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@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
8 May 12
I enjoy the days when I stayed some days with my friends. It was all around fun. I think you will have a good time when you spent some days with your friend and make sure that you make the time at it's best. Make sure that you tighten your relations more deeper into your hearts. I hope you will have a good time with her.
