Kid suspended for wearting t-shirt with "Life is wasted without Jesus"
By jonnifc
@jonnifc (1017)
Philippines
May 6, 2012 10:28pm CST
I heard about this story from a friend so I looked it up. Here's a link. If you're gonna read it, consider reading the comments on the article.
(not a referral link)
http://www.digitaljournal.com/topic/Life+is+wasted+without+Jesus
Somehow this story just makes me sad. We have become so sensitive to being politically correct that it borders on suppressing the freedoms that we claim to have. I know that FREEDOM IS NEVER ABSOLUTE. But I don't see this as an attack on other faith. I was thinking, if the shirt was endorsing another religion, would I be offended as a Christian? I don't think so. It's an expression of belief. Some people are against this because they focus on what the shirt "also means" like "you're a wasted life because you don't believe in Jesus" or whatever. But if we look at it that way, then that is the same as a Muslim wearing hijab. The hijab is an expression of her belief. Not just of her faith but of the theologies and principles of Islam. Just the same as the shirt the Christian kid wore. It was an expression of the theologies and principles of his faith.
So what do you think?
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5 responses
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
7 May 12
As the article points out, the offensiveness of the slogan lies in the way it was worded.
Consider the statements:
'My life is wasted without Jesus'
'Life is wasted without Jesus'
'Your life is wasted without Jesus'
All of them express an opinion (with which, of course, one may or may not agree) but, as a slogan on a T-shirt, can be taken as opinions of the wearer or something which the wearer might intend to say to an individual.
The first statement cannot sensibly be taken as a statement about anyone else but the wearer. The last two, however, can both be construed as a comment or criticism about the person reading or hearing it and therefore tend to attack another's beliefs. In that sense, therefore, they may be offensive where the first is not.
Wearing a T-Shirt with either of the two last statements is quite different from wearing a hijab, a kippah or a crucifix.
I note that a later news article states that the student will be allowed to wear the T-Shirt, nevertheless.
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Yeah, they said that it's in the wording, so a shirt that says "Real men love cats" is offensive to those men who don't love cats? Because a male reader who happens to believe that dogs are better than cats is judged by the wearer as not a "real man".
If you were reading the shirt, would you be personally offended, though? I mean, if you don't feel you're wasting your life away even if you don't believe in Jesus, would the message of the shirt matter to you? Like, would it matter to you what someone else says about the way you live your life?
Thanks for yor response and your update as well.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
7 May 12
Whether or not I, personally, would be offended is not at issue. I gather, from reading the News report, that what was really offensive was that the student had been asked NOT to wear the T-shirt and had deliberately disobeyed his school's instructions. In other words, he was suspended NOT for wearing the T-shirt (and wearing it once or occasionally might not have been construed as offensive) but for his pig-headed and inflammatory attitude towards authority.
I don't suppose, for a minute, that, when he first wore the T-Shirt, he thought very hard about the way that the message might have been construed as offensive. It was only once the semantics had been pointed out to him that he continued to wear it for ten days in a row (and very possibly not washing it, either).
In my view, someone who states (or implies), either verbally or on a T-Shirt that my life is wasted without Jesus needs to think seriously about the real meaning of Christianity before he does so.
I believe that there are too many occasions when the over-application of 'political correctness' becomes plain silly. Substituting "Happy Holidays" for "Happy Christmas" and banning the use of Christmas trees, Santas and Snowmen (none of which, incidentally, have a religious significance) is just bureaucracy gone mad. I shall continue to wish my Jewish, Muslim and Hindi friends (and those of any other persuasion also) a 'Happy Christmas' but I shall not do so in protest but rather in the spirit of the occasion.
@urbandekay (18278)
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8 May 12
This is ridiculous, have we all become a bunch of silly little spoilt brats, to take offence at the slightest remark that can possibly be construed as an insult?
The greatest good manners is not to never give offence but never to take it.
Those that are offended by such an innocuous slogan need to grow up and the administration should not pander to their emotion instability
The second two interpretations given are not intended as insults but rather as advice and should be taken in that light.
Honi soit qui mal y pense, (Shamed is he who thinks evil of it)
all the best urban
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
7 May 12
Canadians take great pride in having a free country! As a Canadian I don't see any problem with this shirt.
However I don't go along with the wearing of a hijab, as this head-covering makes the wearer unidentifiable. In this age of camera surveillance this would really mess up law enforcement.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
10 Oct 12
I find it sad and agree with you that we have become so politically correct that it borders on suppressing our freedoms! People get offended waay too easily!! Of course there's a real spirit of dislike of anything pertaining to the God of the Bible. Why many are much more tolerant or would embrace a religion that suppresses women, before they would embrace Christianity. To me that's just insane!
@urbandekay (18278)
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7 May 12
The t-shirt does, as has been noted above, express an opinion and whilst that opinion may suggest that another's life is wasted that is not enough to consider it derogatory or offensive. And I am sure that those complaining did not really take offence. No, this is the work of athiofascists, who attempt to suppress religious expression
all the best urban
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
12 May 12
I don't see the message as offensive either. Though, I wouldn't call them atheofascists because I don't really know if they really are. But maybe they were just extremely sensitive that they think everything is about them that when they saw the shirt, they felt the message was pertaining to them personally. It just snowballed into something bigger and shed light into more issues.
@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
7 May 12
I don't think what they did was right. Muslims get their rug and prey wherever they are when it's praying time. I don't really see that being to much different. It's and exagerated example but the point is there.
Religion is free for everyone to choose so we shouldn't punish others for having a T-shirt with a message like that.
What's next ? Throwing people in jail for having tattoos with "Only Jesus can judge me". I've seen a lot of those and no one complained about those.
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
12 May 12
I don't think there isn't any difference. Even if the shirt states something that a Christian would believe, I don't think it is meant to insult or demean someone else's beliefs. It's just merely stating an opinion. I remember a quotation that says "you have the right to say whatever you want and I have the right to not listen to it". Why won't they just do that? Thanks for your response!