I am thin, So what can i do?

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Nicolas is my ex...

I though Nicolas Cage

At first my heartiest wishes to your newly married life. Be happy always dear viji. Now, thanks for your wishes. Yeah, she is caring and sometimes it bothers me as it appears as over caring.lol. I am ready make her happy as what i am now, so i think she should not think a lot about my physique, right? Thanks again and have a nice time.

You are welcomed viji. It may be, i mean someone has commented about me in front of her and that is why she is suggesting me. It really teases me, you know. If she really loves me, then why she should consider other's comments. There are many comments to me too against her but i have already ignored all of them. There are some poisonous person in case of a relationship. An arranged marriage is all concerned about it. Take care.

Thanks Shibha. :-) She is caring because she has to. Are you loving her? Then why do you think it is too much caring? May be some would have commented about your physique and it would be the reason for her to comment. So just talk to her and try to understand her or just explain about you to her. You both have to know about each other and have to love each other.

Hi garden... yes, you are right. some people have said me the same that people gain weight after marriage. I am waiting to that time too.. Nope, i do think so, if she is concerned about that, i mean to prevent me from being fat after marriage, then why she is asking me to gain weight now? It is all puzzling. I would not ever be disappointed if the person was someone else. I have no time to visit gym, uhhh... have a nice time.

She wants you to have some muscles- and abs Di Watching too many Bollywood flicks of late! maybe finding the right dress and costumes to wear at the different ceremonies of mamus marriage Okay, what abs would be fine for mamu? the 6-pack(ra.one) or the 8-pack(ghajini)?

6 pack is fine, but if he can achieve those like "Ghaijini" uh...no, not Ghajini but "Sanjay" right, because Ghajini is the villain.

Hi didi... I never mean that but it strikes me sometimes. I dont know why people often speaks to me that i am thin and my mom too. I never considered it but when she told me it several times, it really strikes on my mind. I dont know why? May be didi. She wish to have some muscles on me. No abs. oh. It annoys me mamu. Neither i wish to have like 'ghajini' nor 'raone'. have a nice time.

You are right. I am worried myself but she has no complain anymore. Yesterday i went to her home asking the permission of her mom. Then we both stood in front of a full size mirror where i was seemed so thin comparing to her. When i objected, she told me to take enough food and healthy nutrition where as she was thinking and expressing that she wishes to loss some weight and extra fats. have a nice time.

Hiya shibs, Don´t fret so about your weight remember millions of people would give the World to be thin. A lot of people have weight problems that they cannot seem to correct no matter what. For instance if you were not tall and you had the same weight you would get the impression that you were not thin all depends on the build. Be happy as you are if you can. All the stress of travelling really far most Days of the Week can take it out on you as well and keep your weight down on the other hand the stress would make some people gain weight it all depends again. I know being slim is not much fun when everyone around you points it out all the time that you are much thinner than them I have been through that. When I was able to relax more and life was getting less stressful I gained a bit of weight and it suited me too but I don´t know I did get a bit worried but seeing as they said I was very healthy I just left it at that. Trouble is with extra weight the more you fret about it the the more you notice it and actually you can gain more weight because of that. I think you will both settle with how you each are from how I see it looking at it all from a distance you both need time and the time that maybe you will or will not give it. Just take your time with everything in other words. Can´t think of any other to say it that´s all.xxx

Thanks a lot for your kind words. I am stress out now.

Hi kitty... For her, a person should be healthy and perhaps muscled(i assume). Yeah, i do think so, she wishes that i should gain some weight and muscle. Well, i can gain weight by dieting but cant be muscled as i have no time to go gym. I do work at home, in garden, not a sleepy person in holidays. Although i dont do exercises but do labor which is enough to have an exercise. Hmmm..., i do think the same again. have a nice time.

Hi williamjisir... Yes, i do think the same. As she is healthy and i am thin comparing to her, she might think that i should have some fats than now. lol. many many thanks for your wishes and sorry for being late. have a nice time.

Muscle weighs more than fat,but if you are already healthy that is great. Please do stop smoking, it is not attractive or healthy. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. When will it take place?

yeah garden. I have lessened it and trying to quit totally as soon as possible i can. Hope i will be able to quit it completely. My marriage will take place on October. date is not fixed yet. Thanks.

Hi savypat.. hahaha. Nice option. yeah, i am thin, it's sure but i have no serious health issues. Get tired sometimes as i have to journey almost 200kms per day by local train. No heart attack friend, dont make me frightened.. yeah, she is more concerned about me. have a nice time.

Hi shekhar. thanks for the suggestion. Actually i have no time for gym but i can follow your additional diet. Thanks again. have a nice time.

Mamu. well i have lessened smoking and drinking and i told here too. I have almost succeeded. About 27 or 29? no idea. Yes, trying meet Amir Khan to learn how to get muscles on a month and lost them again in a month. @viji, you are supporting mamu? grrrr... Have a nice time.

yikes!!! typos: quite: quit

Got the right point here, sid. *thumbup

Hi amiga.. Thanks. I have very less time amiga for gym. i reach my home at 7:30pm being tired as i start my daily journey at almost 5:30pm. Yeah, it is sure that i have all efforts to make her happy. thanks again and have a nice time.

Hi Mashnn.. Actually she has no complain with me physique but still she thinks about my health. I have already mentioned that i am healthy. But if i stand beside her, then it looks myself very thin comparing to her. Have a nice time.

hi mashnn, well judged. Hmmm. She is a great cook and knows to cook several dishes. Lets hope to be a bigger person then. Lol.

If you are health then that is what matters but anyway, she will have a chance to cook for you and find out whether you can be bigger the much she want.

Mel, she understands me very well dear. hehehe.

no, never.

Thats the biggest lie...I ever read..

Hi derek... I am the same thin from my childhood. No up no low. I played cricket on my school days and was active on martial arts. As you i born as a slim guy, hence nothing can change me even gym too, i think. I do accept and happy with whatever i am now as i have no health related issue, but her concern makes me disappointed sometimes. have a nice time.

Hi allamgirl... Yes, that is me on the picture with my sister no doubt. Yeah, i think i should be a little fat from her point of view. Well said that i can do exercise at home and i do consider your suggestion. I cant visit a gym as i have a busy schedule all the week. have a nice time.

Hi lady... Thanks. I do feel so as i have no health related problem. Actually she is a little fat and comparing to her, i am thin. I eat right food but unfortunately i have to take two meals at hotel except holidays. Thanks for your suggestion and i shall try to follow your diet. Have a nice time.

Hi viju... I have no health related issue unless seasonal cold. And i have told her already about it. I have already lessened all those and stopped some of them for ever. I am thinking to diet and you know, i did not do breakfast earlier but now i take rice at 9:30am as far as i can but my launch and breakfast are done at hotel. It may be a reason that i dont get the proper nutrition. Yes she is more healthy than me. Have a nice time.

Hi almond... Not so chubby but have a little fat and comparing to her, i am thin and it may disturb her and that is why she has suggested me to visit gym. It is totally impossible to me. I know that some women feel safer with hunky guys but as you have said that slim guys are also protective, and i can giver assurance about it that i can take care of her from all sides. You have a nice idea. she called me just at the middle of this comment and i just cut the phone telling her that i am busy with her advices.lol have a nice time.

Hi libysz... Yeah, but i have already told her all details about me without concealing anything. So, there is no point to be worried at least. have a nice time.