what is she even thinking?
By jazel_juan
@jazel_juan (15746)
Philippines
May 8, 2012 12:05am CST
Ok i got pissed off just now lol.. but calming..trying to calm..
I was on facebook, browsing some pages when i saw a picture of my husband taken last sunday at the birthday he went ( the time he went home late- but we are ok now) anyways, i looked at the picture and a lady commented on his picture saying some stuff in chavacano our dialect, she said he is "malandi" i am not sure what that is in english but i guess it is near to the word "very flirt" that lady even said "she tried my husband before" - yes guys interpret it the way you can..hmm but i got pissed off anyway as it was not right and not formal.
it was actually in a conversation, a lady and another lady..and she was telling the lady those things.. it was crazy and i got pissed off and told her right then on facebook how dare she say something like that to my husband... ppffftttt! i am steaming, she didn't reply yet and i called hubby and he said it is just a joke and she is a friend and i said she has no respect at all at me, or even him as he is married right? pppfffttt!! gave her a piece of my mind.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=3428668963936&set=at.3428661203742.2152811.1486705655.100000737724291&type=1&theater - not a referral! i do not know if anyone would understand this though.. but just sharing.
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6 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Oh my jazel, you are so jealous! I didn't understand the dialect that they are saying.
But yeah, your woman's intuition might also be right. However, that maybe is in the past and they're making a joke of it, but again "jokes are meant to be half truths".
Did i make you more jealous of what i commented? 
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
9 May 12
i can be pretty jealous simplyd! but i am calm now well i also believe in my own guts and instinct that is why i reacted and yes jokes are half meant.. 
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Well, second emotion. I do believe that women's intuition are better than lie detector tests. And so, to add more , you might be feeling that way because of something. You know..
But, if your husband sure you, and prove to you how he loves you, then there's no more point on taking your jealousy on top level. Well, every woman has their rights to get jealous to their man, and every woman needs assurance.
So, if he showed you and you felt that assurance I'm saying. Well, back off to that thinking of fighting against the other girl, cuz you'll just lower your pride.
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So FB has caused another misunderstanding again ha? 
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
9 May 12
Hi Jazel,
I could not understand the script but I got an idea of what they were say from your discussion. I'm glad you see now that it isn't worth getting worked up over. All I have to say is that there is so much drama on facebook. People love it.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
10 May 12
My daughter recently broke up with her long time boyfriend and I watched her earlier sitting on here with her cell phone in hand, calling her ex and arguing with him...getting all worked up over things people were telling her on facebook. She finally said to him (ok yelled at him)"Look you piece of sht...just lose my phone #. In fact tomorrow, I'm changing it!" When it all subsided, I told her that I couldn't help but overhear that very loud remark and I thought it was the smartest thing she could have said. I also told her she would be wise to just stay away from facebook. Her friends were reporting to her each time her ex even spoke to another girl and blowing it all out of proportion. He really isn't that much of a stud so I am sure they are just exaggerating things and she is still sensitive to it all and even KNOWING that it's probably nothing at all like they are making it sound like, she can't help but buy into it.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 May 12
FB do create these kind of problems and arguments, and i know i should now better to avoid it.. that is why i might lay it off and let it be..
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 May 12
yes its just too much drama but sometimes when people i love are involved and even me.. i get all worked up and cannot help but not ignore it hahahaha its like the tiger in me comes out or something but i am trying my best to ignore it now.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
8 May 12
If i were you just sent her message to delete her post, the words are very offensive. If you can delete the post you may. Its bad when your daughter saw it.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
9 May 12
i didn't message her.. lol i left it as it is. oh well as long as i said my piece
@annrielyn_03 (350)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Hi my friend... I saw the picture... well even if i did not understand the language much, i knew there is something. well, if i were in your place, i'll get mad too.. even if it's just a joke.. it's bad when husband still connects to someone who has been known to have a crush or something on him. i'll get pissed off too if i were in your place. but relax.. take time to think over and over again.. you know and you'll feel if he's doing something bad.. woman instinct..
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 May 12
i am laughing about it now, i cannot believe i got pissed off right away but still i do not regret telling her a piece of mind, i just do not like the words she used especially if she is referring to my husband..
and yes i do always follow woman's instinct 
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
8 May 12
I think you have every right to react, though I don't understand what they're saying. Since that is your husband. However, did you react using your account or his? If you did react using his account, then perhaps it's humiliating your husband a little bit - just a little bit. You know how ego rules a man's name.
However, I still think it's fit because he is a married man and people should not forget it. I too would react if I were in your situation. I wouldn't care less what other women may think as long as that guy there is my property and nobody should try and attempt to flirt with him!
Hehehe.. Keep it cool.. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
9 May 12
i used my own account, i do not know my husband's password, he has the right to his own privacy.. but i really do not like the way that girl joked around.. i mean any wife would also get pissed right?1 person likes this
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
9 May 12
Just ignore her and the incident , have faith in ur man and dont spoil your married life.
