I feel bored.
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
May 8, 2012 5:37am CST
Good day Fellow Mylotters,
For the past few days, I somehow feel bored whenever I talked to my guy. That although we are discussing an interesting thing, still the feeling of boredom arises. As I cannot explain why. I don't want to think that I am not inlove with him anymore but whenever we talked, the feeling is just the same, I mean, there is no excitement at all. Hence, there are times, I am not happy anymore with the way our relationship goes.
4 responses
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 May 12
Then it is important for you to do things that will improve your relationship. Go out and have a good time with one another. Perhaps go to a few places that you have been to in awhile. Do things that will create a stronger and closer relationship between you and your boyfriend. Every relationship needs activities like this to keep it thriving.
@AJsMom (157)
• Philippines
9 May 12
We all do get through the process of getting bored in our life. I suggest you go somewhere else and try things that you haven't done yet. Something that both of you will look forward to. Learn to find out which will bring out a new excitement in your companionship. If it still does not work out, maybe something is really wrong.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
8 May 12
HI,
For any long lasting relationship you really need to value your partner’s love towards you.
Though you have not mentioned how long you are in this relationship but add spice to your relation is necessary once a while. Do your homework once again and find out what you are missing.
Is it because of mood swings or something else? For add on excitement I can suggest - try doing something together in the kitchen, make a surprise visit / call/ text while he’s at work, go for a walk together, accept your partner with the strategy of he is ‘different from me’ and need to handle with care. This could be the best policy to attract each other physically. Take your romance out of the bedroom, cherish the old memories of a date through photos/videos etc help to enhance your intimacy.
Be happy & smiling
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
8 May 12
I think it the time to fix your relations root deep in your heart and regularly treat them with love. Fist change your attitude. Make your mind to to cop up with the relation. This is the thing you can do to it.