grade competition

@keasling (723)
United States
May 8, 2012 7:42pm CST
Ok. So I have always tried to do the best I can possible do. My sister in law started college last semester and she did great. She got her a 4.0 GPA for the semester. This semester she will finish with 4 a's and 1 b. I am very happy for her. She makes me feel though I am not going to my full potential. My husband says I do not need to compare but it has always been something I do. I will finish the semester with 2 B's and 4 A's. I go to school full time plus work plus the kids plus my husband. She goes full time but has no job so she is able to study a lot more than I am able to. I am also going to a University while she is in community college. I just can't help feel that I need to have a higher GPA than she has. Are you like that? Or do you don't worry about things like that?
3 responses
• United States
9 May 12
yes! that's going a little overboard! you are finishing up your 3rd year. she finished her 1st year (??) you're going into education. she's going into medical. ya'll aren't even taking the same classes. that has a lot to factor in. want to compete? choose people in your own classes. want a challenge?? compete with dad! don't forget, she may not go out and have a job, but she's got a houseful of people and don't get peace and quiet, not that you get to have peace and quiet. you two have different family situations. love you both! proud of both!
@keasling (723)
• United States
9 May 12
well you know how I can be. I just feel that because I have not reached a 4.0 average yet maybe I am not as smart as I think I am. I already try and be the top of my class already and I make sure I am ahead of everyone else.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
9 May 12
Oh how I wish my teenage sons would have even some portion of your competitiveness spirit... They seem to always just be satisfied with whatever grades they get. And when I ask them whether anyone in their class get higher grade, they don’t seem to be concerned at all, sometimes they even feel it’s none of their business what every one else’s grades are. My first born manages to get at least C’s, and his brother maintains A’s & B’s up to now; still, sometimes I feel they have the potential to do better only if they are motivated by some eagerness to compete with the highest grade earner in their classes. Anyway, if I were you, I’d feel that I have achieved better than your sister in law given all the circumstances. 2 B’s and 4 A’s will give you practically 4.0 GPA too. Congratulations, and I so admire your competitiveness spirit…
• Philippines
9 May 12
Well at first, I don't mind about competitions in school.Besides i am an honor student, I still share my assignments, or ideas with my classmates. But sometimes, I really felt awkward when there are times that they receive more credits with what idea I taught and shared to them.Then that gives me the courage to make a competition besides i still wanted to help my classmates who really don't understand the lessons especially in Mathematics.