I will really feel sad if I loose my friend.

Philippines
May 9, 2012 12:40am CST
A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters, I feel quite sad for the past 2 days as I have the feeling that I will gonna loose a friend. That due to some misunderstanding, our friendship will just loss like that. Well, before I don't mind loosing a friend since I have too many. But, when they started to have their own families and live afar, there I started to worry a bit. Since I have lost communications to many of my good friends. And now, I feel so sad if I will gonna loose this friend that I am referring to. Hence, I truly treasure her being my friend but I do not know what to do to win her back. The only thing I can do is to pray that our good friendship will be revived. Thus, I want to gain more friends again just like the good old days.
8 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
hi, we will feel sad if we lost a friend because they are already part of our life,i have many friends and i have met them in different time and place some of them are far to my place and no communication and some of them are near to me and my co worker.though i have many friends they still have differences that i could miss f course.
@Nikhabele (166)
• South Africa
9 May 12
Friendships are like any other relationships and therefore they are to be treated as such, give her sometime and then phone her to apologies, sometimes we do that even if you are not wrong. It all depends on how valuable the friendship is. Good luck.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
9 May 12
In our lifetime, friends come and go, some stay and some don't, but the fact that they have been and will be part of your life. Surely i missed closed friends who left, but i enjoy new friends who come once in awhile. Life is full of uncertainties and one of them is constant change including people you cared for.
• Philippines
9 May 12
You won't feel the value of something until it is lost. Friends are the only ones who can understand you in a different way than your parents. You need your parents but you also need a collection of friends. Friends are hard to find and are treasures. Value friendship and make a lot of friends.
@bharsil83 (114)
• Indonesia
9 May 12
I think not to worry, if indeed he is the best for you then the friendship will be back. To me if it was misunderstanding, one day the truth will be revealed. Stay confident and live life us usual.
• Philippines
9 May 12
yeah.. it would be so devastating. know what? i would rather lose my boyfriend than my friends. because friends are there when boyfriends leave you. for me.. :)) just talk to your friend and share honest feelings rather than flattery lies :)
@kellykh (11)
• United States
9 May 12
I would recommend that you sit down and talk to your friend and really let her know how you feel. Tell her that you are sincere about having her in your life. Let her know that she is an important part of your life. Make sure to keep in touch with her, so your friendhip stays nourished. I hope this helps a little. Take care and things will get better.
9 May 12
Hello aira, I think you need to recall the things you have done to her the day before it started because i believe that no one should behave that way without a reason. Sometimes we have to be careful on how we react and do because even friends are friends they have emotions also. I have same experience, not in your position but to your friend side. I have this friend who love to give negative comment specially on things prices and it really annoyed me. Will i respect her opinion but the impact of this to me is negative, i manage to let passed from ear to ear. Since I consider her as friend i told her sometimes that what shes done was not pleasant. Not until when i got home bringing the thing i buy that she really try to know how much it cost. I was a little bit problematic at that time because of family reason and here she is trying to critique what i bought made me really disappointed.I almost burst and manage to kept silent. i don't know if she had any idea what kept me from her but one thing is for sure i wont tolerate things anymore, i already told her many times but i think its her nature, maybe i need to step backward...