Instan lover
By douiya
@douiya (66)
Indonesia
May 9, 2012 4:07am CST
I in confuse now, people around me told me to have a lover or getting married as soon as possible. I just don't understand what is in their mind, why they are so worry. I'm fine being single. I mean get married is not as fast as they think, i need to think over and over again. They keep trying to bring me somebody to be with me.. I think love can be instant like that. It is a long muse, and deeply thinking..
do you think instant lover exist?
4 responses
@JonGilbert (111)
• Philippines
10 May 12
Maybe they worry about you coz they think that you are old and almost late to get marry. maybe that's what bugging them.
@sweetplayer10512 (44)
• Philippines
20 May 12
Well maybe they are just concern with your well being, in my country if you reach the age of 30 they consider you an old maid and expect to pick just anyone to marry. Or, maybe they are not that mature and they still live on those years where women should get married after her first menstruation. But, the fact that you know what you want and that is your happiness at risk then you should fallow what you think was right and be happy with it. In the end life is not perfect but as long as you are happy and you learn for every stumble down you are soo much way to go.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
15 May 12
If you are happy the way you are, you shouldn't mind them. You are in charge of your life and not them. Marriage is a serious commitment.
It's not like wives can be bought in convenience stores. I wonder why people have to rush marriage. It's not a good idea to spend life with someone you hardly know. Imagine what would happen to you in your married life.
Take it easy. Enjoy dating women. Get to know a lot of women. You don't have to rush, ignore them. You are the only one who can decide your future.
Wait... you are a man right? 'cause i said women up there.
