Are you willing to wait longer marriage for your partner?

Philippines
May 9, 2012 8:02am CST
Lets say you have distance relationship,and still not yet come because of the circumstances. And you just wait,no matter what happens.How is your life and how you feel it? I think that,if you are following Gods plan,time for you to be,is the time for you to get married. It's the purpose,reason why it takes long time,even it hurts for you,painful but if you are willing to wait,it is the best and good for us than to hurry..
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12 responses
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
9 May 12
If I believe he's the right one, I'm gonna wait till the end of the world for the marriage... even though I'm usually an impatient person, I'm not going to surrender love for impatience.
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• Philippines
9 May 12
Yes me too.If it is the right person for me, i 'll wait and also to pray about it.I know that to hurry is like you are forcing your self,and your end is worse i mean there is consequences to face.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
12 May 12
I don't really mind the wait since I enjoy the present. I'm not worried that he will find another, cause if he does then he is not the one for me and there's another man out there that is better than him. besides, I would love to enjoy my single life, i have more freedom and I can go on adventures without worrying about children. Why some people rush marriage, I can't relate. Maybe they are anxious that their partner will get away so they immediately decide to tie their partner in place or something, or maybe they are ready for marriage and they want to have their children.
• Philippines
12 May 12
Yes true,being single we have a lot of freedoms and we are free to go any where and do things we love. Its also if married,we are like slave to be married.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
23 May 12
not exactly, if marriage is done ideally or managed well(like both partners make good effort to keep the relationship strong), it wouldn't be like slavery, it would be one of the best things that can happen to a person in his or her life.
• Philippines
9 May 12
Hello bfrndwith me, I am single and right now i don't think about of getting married really really soon. in fact, am not even interested in getting a relationship with some one i think. you know, the biggest mistake of mylife was going on a hurry instead of slowing it down and living a day out of it
• Philippines
10 May 12
Ah i think you are young to have that and also is not the right time yet for you to have that. Enjoy and you will be in the right direction.
• United States
9 May 12
I agree, I don't want to rush a relationship. That is the reason why I don't have a boyfriend right now.All the guys I have dated wanted to go super fast. It is better to wait, I believe in fate. I know that might be silly but I think fate it real. If it is mean't to happen then it will.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 May 12
It is a very good idea to wait and take your time before a person gets married. Marriage is a serious step. If the couple is in a long distance relationship they should strive to get to know one another the best that they can. That way they will know if they are suited for one another. They should also try to arrange to spend some time together with friends and family. To see how they all get along together.
• Philippines
9 May 12
Yes marriage is serious to enter in is like you are inside of the world of marriage. You no longer a single,but married.Married responsibility is to have family care,and kids to watch etc.
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• United States
15 May 12
Yeah a married couple are to be one flesh. They should no longer see things as single individuals. But that they know have another special person in their life that they should consider their feelings on matters. It is a big commitment. It should be entered into when a couple understands the seriousness of it.
• Philippines
10 May 12
I agree. Im in your shoe right now. To lessen the pain of longing someone, Id rather wait for him than to find new one. If he is really not for me, then in Gods time the right guy for me will come.
• Philippines
12 May 12
True, i know that waiting is good to us to apply.And if the person is not for us,we can't do anything but to wait,and to pray for God's will.
• Philippines
21 May 12
I agree.
10 May 12
for me, waiting can never be a good idea. I am a person without patience really. If you feel that he/she is the one or if he/she completes you, its in your own will and choice to decide. however, in making decisions just be practical and realistic. Because if you truly love that person, even with a short notice, you will love all of him.
• Philippines
10 May 12
Well i don't know patience is better to work it well so things will be better in the future of life. I am not patient and i know what the feeling to be,and i do learn from it and good for me.
• Philippines
9 May 12
I agree to wait for the marriage to come rather than forcing things out. Commitment to marriage is different because there will be no turning back and the partners need to raise their children. This will be a new phase in our lives and it needs complete responsibility to be a happy family.
• Philippines
9 May 12
Yes agree, no turning back the past but to look forward and willing to take those trials to come. It's a commitment that you are agree that you are to married,and do all things inside of it.
@MandaLee (3760)
• United States
9 May 12
For me, its best to wait. God knows what's best for me.
• United States
9 May 12
I completely agree. I really want to wait. I think it is better to save yourself for the person you love instead of a random person.
@cloud31 (5809)
9 May 12
Yeah,I will wait for the right time and what the will of God to both of us. I don't mind waiting if its the will of God..For I know Gods plan is perfect. Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
10 May 12
Yes God knows it and we just wait and pray for it and hope that God will do the rest and He is God i am sure the perfect one who do the rest.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
9 May 12
I just went through that. It's really hard to comment on this, because it will depend on the both of you. And on what both of you feel about each other and about the plans that you both have made. But for me, I chose to end the pain after years of trying to make it work.
• Philippines
10 May 12
I know it depends on you both and if you agree each other and also you pray about the leading and good direction so it will not be worse at the end of it.
• Philippines
9 May 12
yes i agree with you, because all of us was destined to have right partner in life,just wait for for that right girl or boy,to be our partner in life, so just wait for the right time to come married is not in hurry because it is a life time commitment.
• Philippines
9 May 12
Yes i am sure the right partner is set by God to match it in the future.There is no need to hurry but have to wait no matter how long is it and i know God working it.
@audrey92 (20)
• United States
9 May 12
I would wait if I thought he was my true love.I think the distance can make your relationship stronger. The bright side to this kind of relationship is that when you finally get to see each other you will appreciate each other more. If I never got to see him , then the relationship would not work for me. I might make an exception for a military relationship.
• Philippines
10 May 12
Yes i am sure that to wait is to work your patience too.And also for the good of everything. This long distance i think is more exciting but it is sad sometimes to think.