im still thinking on how to make my boyfriend forgive me
By rashme317
@rashme317 (250)
Philippines
9 responses
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
10 May 12
Ok, I read your other discussion on this. What exactly did you do to upset him? Three days to stay mad is a long time it seems. There is nothing you can really do to "make" him forgive you. If he is so angry that he does not want anything to do with you anymore then you have to accept that as hard as that may be to do. If he really wants to be with you then he will come back when he has had time to cool down.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
10 May 12
Ok, I went back and read through your other discussion and see that you did answer someone that the reason why he is mad at you is because he read your chat message and did not like it. So what was so bad about it? It seems as if you leaving out a lot of important details. There has to be a reason why he is so mad at you that he won't have anything to do with you for 3 days unless he is a real hot-head.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
12 May 12
What is it that he is mad at you about? You could get him a card and small gift that says you are sorry. I hope that everything works out for you. You should try and talk with him. Maybe enough days has gone by that he will talk with you.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
10 May 12
You can't do anything to make him forgive you. You haven't said what it is that you need forgiveness for but it really doesn't matter. Forgiveness is something that comes from ones own heart. If he doesn't feel it in his heart to forgive you then it's just not gonna happen. The sooner you realize this, the better.
@kmbkelly8 (2)
• United States
15 May 12
We need more information in order to help you out about what to do. First of all, it's good that you've given him this time without badgering him. If you badger it'll push him away. Secondly, get some sleep. You can't do anything about this in the middle of the night. Thirdly, I would have a very frank conversation with him and talk everything out. It is important that you both get everything out in the open, facts as well as how both of you feel, so that there is no resentment built up for later. Don't try to sweeten him up with gifts because those are just material things. Lastly, after you guys talk and if you both feel that you should continue the relationship, that's when you make sure to do everything possible (not excessively though) to let him know that you will not make the same mistake again.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
9 May 12
Every one of us has the ability to forgive and forget. But i think, it takes time to heal all wounds.It will also depend on the reason and its impact.
Show him that you are sincere and tell him that you value all the love. Think of the best reason that will make him stay and act according to it. I bet that if he loves you and he value the love and you, as a person, he will surely forgive you. This is from a man's point of view. Good luck.
