Say something, please

I thought I am the only one to get hurt when the response is commented back by the starter, lol. If there are more responses and it is more than enough for me to read at that day, just giving a pause would refresh mind and we could give our views to others too. Even a 'thank you' would make them happy. :-)

I'm with you on this one allknowing. I try to respond to each post. After all, it is only the polite thing to do. I may miss some by mistake, or not respond as quickly as I should i.e. if I have to leave to go to work or am otherwise busy for a day or two, but I do try to go back and respond to them eventually. It makes for a better discussion if you respond. And besides, the more I type, the more money I make so if I can respond and get you to respond to my response the money just keeps on coming! HAPPY MYLOTTING

About time I got in here, kept getting that error message and couldn't sign in. I understand and I do mark everyone + on my posts, but if I don't respond, it might be because I don't know what to say. And it's against the guidelines to just say "thank you" so if I ever offended you by not replying allknowing, at least know I did rate you +...

Hi allknowing That's so true.. Users should take care of all responses of his/her own discussions. You are right even smiley can do the trick.. But leaving box blank can discourage that user.. Personally i don't mind it. And about my discussion, I used to give reply to each and every response i get for my discussion.

That's true. I think there are still those who don't realize that responding back to people who gave their comments on their topic is what they should be doing and would get to earn them more, here. When I was new, I wasn't very conscious about responding back, probably only to a few. But, I later realized that responding back to further the discussion is what mylot is all about.

YES! I don't want that to happen surely,anytime,anywhere. myLot is like a site for offline chat and it does not mean courtesy and does not seem good when you don't reply back to the offline message sent to you.Same as it, when you don't reply to a response,it is annoying.And it is more annoying when your box is left alone and all others are filled with comments.I know how it would be, just like you are avoiding a person's suggestion and responding to all others'! Most of the discussions i started replying with,at the beginning would be like that.Those people would and had never come back to give a reply there into my box,not on anyone else boxes as well.It does hurt! MyLot says we are supposed to respond back to the responses we get and anything that furthers the discussion is welcome.I'm afraid some of them don't understand this and later blame their earnings weren't up to expectations in here. But what if the user was in a hurry and didn't notice your response? Unfortunately i can't use emots now!

I agree with you. It is always a good idea to respond to your responders. It lets them know you appreciate their participation. If the starters of discussions are not being sincere, it shows when they could care less to acknowledge the response with feedback or a thank you. Sometimes, maybe a discussion starter can't always follow up with those who responded, but it doesn't hurt to try. After all, the responder is responding to a discussion that was posed, so an exchange of communication should follow.

May be that is one of the main reasons why some discussion topic remain within the no responses tab for weeks or months. I guess soon or later nobody is going to be interested in responding to some one who doesn't like to say somethings to her own topic, or even show an appreciation through the use of an approriate emoticon due to lack of interests. There is always better thing to do than post responses to someone who never comment back to her own discussion, let not forget about it.

I am like you. I like to be involved in active discussions too. I think that it is nice to be acknowledged and because of the fact we can not repeat discussions, I think it is appropriate to take full advantage of the ones we start. The only way to do that is participate. Take care.

Not always intentional. :) It could be that I've responded and myLot decided not to record it. :) Or I had to attend to something else that was more urgent. In the process I forgot. If I have done that, I am truly sorry. I do try to go back to my discussions and check.

I always try to reply all responses in my topics because i really care the others thought of my topics.

I know it will be discouraging the people who respond to me. I usually don't discourage anybody. I used to comment back to their responses.

I know what you mean... Being ignored is upsetting; but I can somewhat understand if I see there are also other responders who were being ignored along with me. What upsets me most is when I was being singled out to be ignored while the OP commented to all the other responses above and below my box. Yeah, that happened to me; I did not want to take it personally, but it's pretty hard not to do so. My response in that particular incident was not offensive or violating any guidelines at all; and I can't see how it was just an overlook.

I always respond to the posts that actually put some thought and time into the responses.Don't know who you are talking about... But if the topic stays open for a while and people just add things that have already been said, or don't add anything new, do you still respond?

You can always keep hoping that they will acknowledge the fact that you have given of your time to leave a response on their discussion.

i really surely do not want to.. so sad i cannot do the emoticons.. it would still bring me to a lot more discussing and commenting and reading to do.. :) but though i am still have fun reading :)

Can I also say: our weather is doing fine! yahoo! meaning the clothes will be dried soon... then another batch of clothes to the laundry bin.. anyway, can we talk anything here my friend? it would be nice.. right? :)