Would you sacrifice your comfort for your intimate friend?

Hi friend, don't just make your heart to work more for sadness. Just share with someone other than your friend (as your friend need some rest now) so that you will feel better. After letting that weight down from your heart, you could think clearly to find solution for that problem or sadness. For sharing my problems and happiness, I got a gifted friend, who would sacrifice her happiness for me. She is so so good person.

You shouldn't look at a friendship that way. A friendship is not based on how much someone will do for you. Your friend was tired, and perhaps dealing with their own problems, and perhaps did not understand the extent of your sadness. Perhaps you can ask your friend if you can go to their house, even if they are sleeping, just so you don't have to be alone?

Hi there musicloverfriend... I do not know how close you are to your friend that you would feel that way... I never had such friend with passion because I don't like it as well. I do have friends but only like for some reasons like studies, interest, opportunities and etc. But when it comes to my personal life, I do not include them because it's my own life, and they have their own lives as well to take care of. So I think you should try to just make yourself busy for the moment. Just think this way, if your friend won't be able to sleep and rest. He/she might get sick that cause both of you to prolong that agony of not being to meet each other. When I'm sad, I'm just all alone most of the time since my boyfriend is in another country as well, and I've learned that, sometimes people can't always be with you whenever you wanted to.. So you yourself can only be the one to cheer yourself up.. Maybe you should do some sports, recreational activities and such.. Remember what they say "An idle mind is where the devil attacks".. The more you spend thinking such situation, the more you would think of something not really that positive.. I hope I don't offend you in some ways.. Have a nice day and good luck!

Seeking comfort or relief with a special friend surely is a good approach of getting rid of your sadness and try to cheer you up, but there are instances that sometimes circumstances seem to contradict situations just like in the case of your friend who must be probably really very tired and really needs to rest. If you feel bothered by this and still needs to be cheered up, why not you going to her place instead?

Hi, Tough text keep you connect at length but instead of texting, you could have dialed the friend’s number and spoke out your heart. That would have given you instant relief from your sadness and gradually your mood would be better. May be while speaking your friend can always convey about the tiredness and sleepiness, which I am sure you would have allowed doing so. There was a similar incident, I was at a meeting with the boss and my best friend was trying to reach me frantically. First I disconnected the call and was somehow focusing the discussion but again it rang (blinks as it was set on silent mode) and I got puzzled. With the boss’s permission I attended the call and listened as my friend needed to talk about her break up. I couldn’t say much in front of the boss. I only told her to be calm, I’m calling her back (can’t visit as she’s in a different city) after five min. That day we spoke for more than two hours and I even skipped my lunch/ tea break. I think we need to choose our words wisely at such situations and after all they are our friends who can understand our position and not the boss/s.. LOL.

First of all,think what your friend needs now.He's feeling extremely tired and sleepy.You want his company now.How is it possible? I would like to suggest you what he wants rather than what you expect from him.Perhaps he would not like you to disturb him at the moment.Try to sacrifice your wish for his comfort.Otherwise you would be selfish.