I was sad

What happens in our household is very complicated. I am also very confused, what happens to our household. If, all of which have occurred, can be forgotten, maybe our relationship is not as complicated as this.

you still had your kids you still had your mother you had your brothers and you still had your God..

it was so good if one party want to take initiative for making the relationship is normally but it is good because your husband accept your offer..

yes, he must feel the same feeling about indah feeling

ask God..He knows what is your really feeling...

I always ask, but I did not get a response.

I was deeply touched, by the phrase "bad or good, he is your husband". I have to accept what has happened. I really wanted to, our relationship changed, and become good. love, I do not know if it still exists. I do not know what love is.

I hope. My husband feels the same.

you had answered your yourself question.. you answered in another people comments you said that your husband send message and ask your condition c`mon..it is the sign that he feel the same like what you feel now.. he must be sad when know that now he must be alone in tanjung pinang and you and your kids still stay in Yogya iam really sure, he must be sad..

Our relationship, very cold. Because, there are many problems that we face. If you read my previous discussion, you will definitely know, how our relationship was. Right now, I hope, there will be a miracle for us. Thus, our relationship to be good. In June, I will follow my husband. I hope, as we gathered, our relationship is no longer cold.

I really hope, miracle, that I expect, can immediately came over me.

Oh I'm sorry I wasn't able to read your previous discussions. I hope everything will be alright with you and your husband.I will keep you in my prayer and hope the next time you will be starting a discussion about the good things happened and the miracle you are asking for. Have a nice day!

I always hope, all to be good for us. Too much sadness that I experienced, I hope there is a little happiness to me. Happiness, which so far I really wait.

I was very tired of waiting. If happiness came to me. Happiness that comes only apparent.

someday your sadness will be replaced by happiness. thats God promises to the people believe Him

During this time, we are not good communication. I just according to what was said by my husband. I dare not, say anything to my husband. That, that makes me feel free. Because, I was always afraid to do anything. Usually, I am happy, if my husband left. But this time, I felt sad, and felt really miss my husband.

so try to improve that bad communication.. try before someday both of you regret because of it you miss him he miss you too

adhyz from her before discussions I think its not quite that easy, she was afraid to really tell him her feelings, oh my God to be afraid of on'es own husband? no he has to come forward too and communicate better with her if he loves her he needs to show it to her,not make her afraid to talk to him, I do not care what culture they are in they are two human beings who got married and supposedly love each other, so both should not make the other afraid to talk to him or her.sometimes the marriage itself is sick and nothing is going to help it unless one or the o her cares to make the changes needed. I never ever was afraid to talk to my husband and I don't think he was ever afraid to talk to me either as we both loved each other unconditionally we took each other just as we were both the good and bad of us and this is a freeing love.

it'll all work out one way or another.

Too long for me, wait for all the sadness that I must live. Hopefully, I can always keep a positive attitude.

I fully understand your confusion.

I'm afraid, made ??a mistake. My husband is always angry. I do not know, which makes my husband mad, and what does not make my husband angry. Little things can make my husband angry. But now, I miss my husband.

he will return..and she will follow her husband 2 months later from now

I certainly hope that there will be some real happiness in your life.

I also have such expectations. I also hope, never tired, to keep hoping. But, it seems, I was very tired.

Actually, I'm used to the sadness. Because, my life is always filled with sadness. I sometimes lost hope. In fact, I'm not sure, will feel happy. But, I always try to always have hope. There will be happiness for me.

ohhhh that was sad...well whatever may the root cause of the problem I guess it would be an ethical if I curiously ask about it..I just hope everything will going to be saved even just for the sake of the children...good luck Inda... Mobhomeir here 051712 1511hrs

When we speak, often becomes argument, and in the end I have to succumb.

Our relationship became cold, one of them because betrayal, and there are many other problems that arise. Our relationship is not very good. In fact I thought I was numb. But, it turns out I missed my husband.

That's really sad to know but you need to be strong because your children needs you in purpose. Let that man if he ask many things from you...it useless to love a person that never love his own..

I hope the best, that I get. Although I'm not sure ..

I'm afraid to hope.

You should do ensure...Don't worry too much.

Yes. now, we communicate by phone, or send a message. I am also very surprised by what happened. When we were close to each other, our communication is not good. But, when we are far from each other, our communication is very good.

If remember what was done by my husband. I'm not sure, my husband will miss me. I'm also not sure whether there is a feeling of love for me. You really know how the story of our relationship. So, you surely really know, how my position.

indah, maybe he miss you too maybe he feel lost too like your feeling now when you are near, your relationship is not better like when both of you must be separated.. maybe God had given plan for both of your relationship..

I hope after this, the relationship can be better, in our household. We are always contacted by phone.

All very confusing to me. I really miss my husband. But, if met, I do not know what will happen. I would definitely see the same thing, when we were together before.

But, I was afraid to face, that will happen, if we are together again.

I do not know, what my husband felt. In his heart, there is another woman.

i believe that her husband must be sad like her.. it must be..

Yes. You are right.

daisy_dion, it is what i am thinking of...