A bit of selffishness is good for yourself

I think it's in the human nature to sometimes to be selfish, or I would say, everyone is always looking for the options in their lives that is more profitable for them. Some may face more fódifficukt decisions. I think people whould be helpful but to an extent... if it's about your own happiness, sometimes you have the right to be selfish.

If it comes to that I can only agree with you. As soon as you are helping out others, you open your door, give away your last penny and solve problems for others they think you never feel bad, you will always manage and they are not home if you knock on their door. So my advice is: only give if there is something to give. Help/take care of yourself first. It's impossible to do good if you don't feel good. Treat others the way they treat you! If not don't waste your time or good energy in others! Imagine where you have been if you invested all the time, energy and money in yourself instead of other people. Believe me, nobody will say thanks, they take you for granted and if you are always helpful and strong you will only attract people who take you for granted, will abuse you and are too lazy to fight for their own goals.