I Met A Horrible Biatch Today!
By my4cats
@my4cats (101)
United States
May 12, 2012 2:20pm CST
Hi, Mylotters.
I got a job now and this morning was my last training day then I will be on my own. I thought everything would flow real nice and smooth, but my last trainer treated me like a slave. I know I have to learn all the routines but she's just so horrible.
I works at a nursing home so we have to answer call lights whenever one is on and she would call me to like I am her slave and wanted me to leave the room to help her! But when I called for help to help one elder she said "yeah!" and she was not doing anything but yapping!
When I told her it's time for me to go, she was shocked! Of course, I have to go, it's past 7AM and I cannot stay longer than that. BIaTCH! I could stay if I would but I just could not stand her and I don't want to start a fight since I was still a trainee. But, tomorrow night? "YOU cannot boss me around anymore because I am no longer a trainee, biatch!"
She's the only who've treated me like that, everybody else are very nice and always nice and helpful.
When it's my turn to train a newbie, I am not going to be like that biatch!
How do you handle a person like that in your workplace?
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8 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
12 May 12
I really hope the way you are now you are not at the working place. there are different kind of ways people can test you.. perhaps she is what you say she is, perhaps she is testing you..seems to me you are not really able to work under pressure with stress.. hope you will learn that soon since I think it's something you have to deal with if you are working as a nurse. co workers, doctors, patients.. they all have stress and they all are different. See this as a lesson and try to find out yourself how to deal with it and not see this as a personal issue or threat since I can assure you by now you will meet way more unfriendly people as friendly ones. And if you are only able to do your job if everybody is very friendly to you, this is not the right job for you. I wish you all the luck.
BTW I don't think there will be any difference between today or tomorrow, between being a trainee or just finished it with one day.
@my4cats (101)
• United States
12 May 12
Oh no, WakeUpKitty... I am not like that. I never complain when it comes to work it's just that this person was so mean to me. I know I am a good person and I always know how to deal with other people but this one was different and she was not even there long yet, she's not a supervisor nor a nurse... I was guessing that maybe she resents me when she noticed that I can deal with the toughest residents, I know because she gave up when we were together assisting the same resident that I was attending to. And I think she hates it that I laugh with the residents, a lot!
Thank you for the advice. I know for myself that this is a big lesson and I am not going to be like her...
@extremebeauty (42)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
It seemed that you are so angry my dear. Cool down and any bad people will have their own karma. Well, I have experienced horror co-employee before when I was in Kuwait. Sometimes she treated me good and sometimes she treated me worst. One time, she told me mop the floor. I said that I will do that later because I have something to finish. Then she said to do it now. I told her if she is eager to see it clean, why not she clean it. She told me that she's going to report me to our big boss and she will tell him to fire me. I told her go and tell him. My boss likes my job and he would not fire me. You have the right to answer her, my friend. She is not your boss.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
13 May 12
I was having these people in my life for the past 10 years, and now I work in a market research company and the people there are less being like this, I was like shocked and mad, mind me if the person is kind, I will treat her kind if she is bad like hell then excuse me, you got to stand up for yourself, my4cats! I hope tomorrow will be a good day starting and you got the chance to work as a nurse. May I know are you still have to deal with her after you are a pass nurse?
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
13 May 12
I love when the newbies come in because I always got them to work together with me and things get done quicker. Its a pain sometimes working by yourself. My trainer was really nice and helped a lot. I have had plenty of times though when i needed help and no one was around. I have to run around the building to find someone. When you have helped them, they ought to also help you, but apparently they're too selfish.
@Jevendiran (778)
• India
13 May 12
I'm actually a student right now. So I don't know how I would react in a work place. Your situation is really irritating. If I were in your situation, I would rather take it as an opportunity to learn how to tackle with such people. It's my nature that I adjust with any kind of a person. But in a work place I can't do that. If go along with them, then they'll use me forever. I will simply go in their way and tackle them. Act as if you are very obedient to her. But don't be so. If she calls you, make a show as if you are busy with some other work and go late. Act as if you feel very sorry and scared. You do this for a number of times, she'll be fed up. This is one way. The other way is you straight away saying to her face about how you feel. This is the best!! One time head ache. But it can't help if we are prone to be sacked for doing so!!
@mayagracie (36)
• United States
13 May 12
Hello, I just started a new job, and the lead where I work would not communicate with me at all. I did not know who the supervisor was for a whole week, and he has never introduced himslef to me. I complained about it, and she makes sure she tells me whats going on now. I was not going to put up with it, and they now know that. You can let them know how you are feeling in an appropriate way. Let her know you will not be treated like that. Good luck.
@AmbiePam (93898)
• United States
13 May 12
I don't think I've ever had anyone treat me like that when I was working, but there was one woman who had tenure over me who talked to me like I was stupid. It was a continual thing. She had horrible self-esteem issues, and I think that was how she made herself feel better.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
13 May 12
Ha, you'd love my relatives then. They act like that now and then. Today was no exception. My mom asked me what veggies I wanted to make for dinner and said that my dad doesn't usually eat any with his hamburger so I just took alittle out of the frozen bag for myself, as she and my brother had their own canned veggies opened. So I go and I pout them on the stove, boil them and when it's time for us all to eat, I take what I wanted out of the pot, left a few pieces of carrots mostly. She goes to me "Is that all you're leaving for your father?" I'm like, Well you just told me he doesn't eat any veggies with his hamburger! So I didn't put any in the pot for him, DUH! This is the kind of thing that drives me bananas about my mother at times.
