cheating

i would like to think that i could forgive and forget for the first time but it would have to take a lot of hard work to do this, i dont think that it will be very easy, If it happened the second time i know that i could not forgive and forget again, I think that everyone deserves one chance, at least

yes, they should be given one more chance to correct it.

Personally I think it depends on the situtation.

no way

no please...if you are giving you are encouraging him to do soo..

Yes, everybody excepts a second chance in this case!

i dont like cheaters

Sure you should give a cheater a second chance if you are a glutton for punishment. Cheaters can't change. If they have crossed that line once they will probably try again. And I don't know about you, but I am not willing to take a chance and find out if a mate will cheat on me again. My patients is to thin. Once a cheat always a cheat. If they really didn't mean to do it, they never would have!!

sorry its a bad habbit and its not good for life

Yes, they should. Now its your turn to see if you can cheat 'em back!

i think no

I do not think that a cheater should get a second chance! By cheating they breach your trust and it is very hard to get over the emotional pain that you have to go through!

If cheaters do realise about their mistakes then they should get second chance but if they don't then you should kick their butts.

I haven't experienced being cheated on (I wish it'll never happen to me), but I think that if it does happen to me, I think I can't forgive the guy. Will just forgive him,(depending on the severity of his infidelity) but no, I don't believe I can still take him back. I'll really have a hard time trusting him again, and deep inside i know, I'll always resent him for what he has done. I know that whenever he's sweet to me, or making love to me, I'll just imagine him doing the exact thing to another girl. Just that thought can break my heart over and over again, and in the end, I'll end hating him instead of loving him. For me, cheating is a gross sign of disrespect and I really can't be with someone who doesn't respect me.

I personally would not be able to forgive and give him a second chance. Cheating on your spouse is a horrible thing to do.

I don't think they should be given a second chance. I have been cheated on and did give him a second chance and a third, etc...With me giving him chance after chance after chance he thought he could just keep doing it and I would keep forgiving him. It's a never ending cycle. You don't have to stay in the relationship to forgive. If you want to forgive the cheater fine but move on and find someone that treats you the way you deserve to be treated.

no way

yes of cause! why i say yes is because what i understand about most cheaters is that they ty to emulate what they see on TV, where cheaters get away with what they do. my opinion is that, when caught, there should be some kind of motivation and cancelling.

Yes!They should be given second chance because what i understand about some cheaters is that they try to emulate what they saw other cheaters do and get away with. When caught, there should be some kind of motivation

It would depend on the situation. The couple could be having problems and it came to one of the spouses cheating. Or they could just be a dog and then don't give them a second chance.