Whom to choose?

Philippines
May 13, 2012 2:26pm CST
The person whom you had a connection but doesn't love you or the person who dearly treats you a princess and loves you so much yet you have responsibilities to someone who is connected with you? please do help.
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4 responses
• Philippines
17 May 12
Listen to your heart. That's all I can Help
• Philippines
17 May 12
Thanks, I know that's really the best thing to do.:)It's just that I have to take the consequences.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
15 May 12
The key to answer this question is how you feel about these two relationships. It is clear one loves you very much but do you love them back? If you did at one time but that relationship has cooled ask yourself why?. Did it cool because of this new relationship or did the new relationship happen because your first does not make you happy anymore. More importantly would be the question, what do you really want? You say you have a connection but they do not love you but yet you believe you have some responsibilities there. Why? How can someone that does not care for you make you feel that you have responsibilities for? How do you feel about the one that treats you like a princess? If this is where your heart lies then by all means go for it. All relationships cool after you have been together for some time. ALL! So the key to this is to be absolutely sure of how you feel about both and then go with your heart. If you do not you will always have regrets. This is true even if the direction you choose does not work out. You are responsible to only one person. That would be you. Do what makes you happy and you can't help but make the other person happy too. Just be sure that what you think you want is really the best thing for you.
• Philippines
17 May 12
Thank you for your wonderful message. I know I am really the responsible for my actions. And mainly have to choose between them. The only hard about it is the decisions and taking the consequences, right. I know I have to face it someday.Thanks a lot.
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@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
13 May 12
well, that question is always there for a person who is not committed to a partner. if one is committed, the question vanishes. there will always be people who will come into and touch our lives in a special way. and there are those who make us loved in a special way. the decision-making is at times stressful, but one has to decide which one. i would go for the one that i feel something.
• Philippines
14 May 12
yes, I am committed but not with legal papers, its just that I had the biggest trial in my life which our relationship with my recent partner has faded, not yet gone but slowly not working at all. and I meet this one person who had accepted me even the ugliest things in my past. So whom to choose?who's the right one?
• New Zealand
13 May 12
Hey there I have the same problem at the moment
• Philippines
14 May 12
Hi, I did accept you as my friend. Thank you for that. Anyways, how did you handle the situation?I am really in trouble.