Dad starting to hate me

Hello wongchoiyee, I don't know i think you're daddy is immature and doesn't understand the situation that you're going through. hard to believe that he wants to get rid of you and have his remaining money for himself.some dads are not that caring to the extend, i think he has his limits. but i can't judge, maybe mine would act that way too

I am sorry to hear that you have not good health for working everyday. however you do work to earn money also. I understand your feeling whenever asking money from your dad and your dad's feeling too. Better you try to spend money less then you wont need to ask your dad money more every month. if you can, try to find some works that you can earn extra money when you don't go out for work. Take it easy, everything will be going fine...

it sounds like you have some health issues that you have to deal with first, before you go out to work full time. you may not be able to. trust me, i can't work because i have a disability. does your dad know about your medical problems? maybe he doesn't believe that they are serious enough to stop you from working. what i suggest is that you go on disability benefits. i don't know what your country has in place for disabled people who can't work, but you should seek this out. i know it's hard because you want to be independent. your dad needs to understand that you are doing all you can, considering your illness. i also think you should do extra things online, like mylot and other paid sites that will put some extra money in your pocket every month. that's what i had to do until my disability came through.

start from not asking money from him, they are like that..one thing to do is try to look for a job that could really support yourself... i hope you can sort all this out

Oh! Sorry to ask, is it benign? Did your father know that you have fibroid and you are taking medicines? I think if your father knows your condition he might give you more than RM15.

I'm so sorry to hear that but I think I do know where your dad's coming from. Maybe when your dad was at your age, he never experienced asking money from his parents so he got a bit fed up when you asked him for some. You know, those types of "I wasn't like that before!" or something :) Personally, though my parents have their pensions and savings, I never asked any amount from them. Maybe this is also the reason why they personally hand me some amount when they "feel" that I need it. I still stay under the same roof as them and I do give a part of my salary to them twice a month. Both my parents are senior citizens by the way (72 and 64) and I have my real mom and aunt living under the same roof (66 and 65, respectively). In my opinion, "hate" is too much of a word. There are times when my mom would yell at me but I don't think she hates me. Maybe it's just a way how your dad releases his frustrations. An outlet of some sort. Just try to understand him and be patient. Just adjust on his attitude :) First off, I think you need to cure your depression. I read some articles about depression before and they said something like it's one kind of psychological issue that's not easy to cure so I hope you can get through that and be better. Same goes with your fybroid illness. I hope you overcome them all. As for your work, is there no way your company can fix your working schedule like adjust your working hours so that you won't be too pressured or allow you to work at home? I have a friend at work who had some serious physical issues and the company allowed her to work at home. Of course she's required to do a complete daily report of her tasks. Of course, there's still myLot to count on when it comes to earning a bit :)

Hi, have you tried looking for freelance jobs online so that during the days that you are at home, you can work on your projects and earn additional income? you might want to try to check how you handle your finances too and try to figure out why you are always short at the end of the month. Maybe there are expenses that you can minimize or you can eliminate so that you will have enough for your needs and you don't have to ask your dad for money anymore.

Hi wongchoiyee,I am so sorry to hear about plight.No doubt that one should try and be independent as soon as one is able to, but in your case since o you have health problems you cannot be so.I feel that you should have your fibroid removed and if necessary discuss the issue with your father , also don't overwork , which may further deteriorate your health condition.As a parent he should be supporting you when you are in difficulty and you can reciprocate later once you are well and able to earn enough. However, I can only say that we all go through these difficult and testing times and come out of it a little wiser and better equipped to handle stressful situations in life.So be positive and take care of yourself

I don´t know whatthe money you talk about is in dollars nor how many more dollars you need to have each month to live. If I earn US $Us or more online each month, you surely can manage to earn half of it. You can earn that online on the days you are not working and you can work online as special sites an hour each day you work. You can talk about your issues with the doctor that´s taking care of your depression. What is fibroid? I have heard that related to many things. I hope this helps. I can help you explining how to earn some money online in a PM, if you wish.

There are several work at home jobs that can help pay for the bills and get you extra money. A lot of my friends earn money through transcription jobs. I've been offered jobs doing transcription jobs as well, and some virtual assistant jobs. I understand that nowadays it's hard to earn good money. But at least most work at home jobs are not that stressful, and can help you earn.

First kick out the depression from you, that is the killer of every human good mental condition. Ofcourse many parents feel tired supporting their child when they grew up, specially when parents are at the age around 50 something. I am just 20 and sometime my mom dad feel tired too by giving me money. I teach some small kids of LKG UKG and kids of standard 1th and 2nd. and I make good pocket money. Well my suggestion is first help yourself be healthy first. Don't spend too much, if you are good in writing then find some jobs in freelance odesk etc, do blogging when you are in free time etc and many more source that you can do while you are in home that can fetch you some extra money to your pocket.

the best thing to do my dear friend is to put up a small business, i myself started a very small business and now it has become wider and wider i had to hire people just to finish my schedule in my business. what im saying here is that, start a small business, look for a way to keep you income intact and improve your business, that way you'll gain ur father's care back. there are lots of business that has can be done even with health issues. ok? i hope you can make ur decision with that. take care.

You must learn to conserve your money, because from the text i read, it look like you too much depends your father, and try to find a job

My dad also staring to hate me. I dont know also why. :( I thinks its all because The generation. But I always love them Even there always hot