tired of my current life~~~
By dorothy172
@dorothy172 (984)
Malaysia
May 14, 2012 10:07am CST
i feel tired of what am i doing now. doing what i like supposingly can make me more energetic, but it seem like up side down. i feel like i am not that energize at this moment. almost all my friend quit this type of life and expose to the new life, but i am still persisting in this type of life. i am thinking to give up because i really feel that i am tired with this, i am totally affected by others. GOD please give me some energy, and let me always walk apart with YOU. i know i will be sad if i leave this just like this, but temporary i really need someone or something to encourage or stimulate my mind, to give me some support~~
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13 responses
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
15 May 12
Life is up and down and you are down like my me this time, i haven't got out of my depression yet, but sharing in here and i got many cares from mylotters, i feel a little bit better.
You should take rest 1-2 days, if you can do travel, you can do now...i hope that you will feel better and love your life more.
Be stronger!!!
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
ya, life will not always brighten up, but sometimes we will fall into the darkest hole. yes, i will take a good rest and be more stronger in my life. hope you also be more stronger and can get out from your depression too =)
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
14 May 12
If you feel tired all the time and like you don't have the energy then you might need to get more exercise during the day and eat more energizing food. Alternatively, you could be depressed. I'm not certain from your post, but I hope and pray that you will hang in there and get the help that you need to get your energy and zest for life back! Find some friends to encourage you to get out and get moving. You will be your most energetic and motivated when you live healthy!
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
15 May 12
That doesn't sound good, it sounds like it might be depression. If it is depression, I encourage you not to try and just tough it out! Depression is a disease that requires medical intervention. Let your family and friends know how you feel, and they might be able to offer support and encouragement. I hope that you can recover as soon as possible as well.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
it seem like not my body without energy but my soul. what i mean tired actually not because of my body, but is my soul. sometimes just feel that always getting hurt with other people and make myself disappointed, and lastly come to the life without energy =( hope that i can be recovered as soon as possible
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@megh4u (372)
• Alpharetta, Georgia
14 May 12
Please don't think like that, some time people think that there is nothing left in life but I suggest you to make new friends have chat spend time together and go on vacations, never take things in negative way since there are so many things that can make you happy and bring your happiness and hope back.
I too feel sometime like there is nothing left but still its not like that try to live life, life is meant for living not spending.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
no, i am not mean that there is nothing left in my life, but just want to change my life style. i can't deny that this i really love this life style, but i cannot persisting at this life style, just want to give up this life style and change to another life style =)
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
If I am not wrong, you said you work in a temple, if that is already a boring place for you, then you should move to another place, like a city to find a job, new friends and the meaning of life. What is the benefits of tolerating people over and over again? That is life, we have to move forward so that we can be at our peaceful and enjoyable life. I hope you get what I mean.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
i am not boring for what i work, actually i am so glad because i can spend my time to help in temple. but just the other matter, anyway, i will be fine soon. just let me take a good rest, i know GOD is always be apart with me, and i will be enough strong to overcome the problems in my heart =)
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
15 May 12
hi there dorothy172,
upon reading your post, i really do not know what are the very reasons behind why you have wrote that. the only thing that i guess, is, you are somehow troubled to do those things which can please others eyes. that, as per my understanding to what you have written, you have done such things because your friends are into it. that you have joined them since you believed that it can pleases others. but it is not really what you want. that, the things you want are not the ones you are working on at the moment. if i sounds right, i guess, its time for you to do what you really want in life. that it will be better and beneficial to work if you love what you are doing. as long as you are not hurting anybody, you are free to move and do the work that your heart is longing for. and if you do work what your heart desires, for sure, you will achieve a good reward.
my friend, life is too short to be wasted. i know it is not that easy to live but, don't dwell too much on regrets, instead, take them as one of the lessons you have learned.
continue to pray and one thing is for sure - God is there - He is always watching you and lending His hand to guide you.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
haha, sorry for me to say, you have guess wrongly =) but anyway, i get what you mean =) thanks friend, i am totally agree with you, life really is short, don't waste time to think about the unhappy stuff in life. we must always be happy, GOD will always be with us, and always lend his helping hand to us when we are in a trouble, that's really true, thank you friend =)
@jobfindonline (1744)
•
15 May 12
It is really hard to do something which you are not happy. so why don't you do the things that you like? If you feel that there is a big change on you, now is the time to correct all things. You can do it and pray for it.
I don't know what to say more coz you didn't specify your problems and what type of life you are having right now. I suggest you make it more specific so you will received the right moral support you need.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
actually i didn't feel unhappy with what am i doing now, just feel that i have no enough energy to go forward. you know, when someone promise you, will always be apart with you, but then, for month to month, they broke their promise to me. i really feel tired with them. if so, why i still have to persist on my promise to them? you get what i mean?
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
15 May 12
I have been student for more than 18 years. As spending too much time in the school, I think I have to change the atomsphere for awhile. While thinking about the life like a salaryman, getting up early in the morning, going to work, then going home and sleep, is also very boring. Maybe I can have a long time travel for half year, then send out to find some job to do it better.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
i am doing what i like for 5 years, and within this 5 years, i am helping fully in my temple, without working experience. now i am thinking to go out and try to get a job, and change my life, hope it will not be too late for me. GOD bless me =)
@comment_please (338)
• Philippines
28 May 12
ha! ha! ha! you and my wife have something in common. she told me that she is not energize for 2 months. well....the different between you and my wife is...
1. my wife online business has low profit for 7weeks. this is bothering. she don't know what to do but clean the house for a while. i hope tomorrow, she will start being energize by thinking and stop cleaning the house. while you...you seem to be boring in what you are presently busy about.
2. my wife like to relax for a while...and you look like busy but not enjoying.
maybe...you need to build your business...a small one...
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
15 May 12
I was thinking when I saw the title, “well I am not alone”
You are not alone dorothy
Then I read what you wrote and realized this is a prayer
After I read megh4u and cromainer and allyoftherain and Jatada and RozAnn56
I realized these people, people pray with you
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
thank you friends, it is good to be in mylot =) i can feel the bless from other mylotters too, thanks =)
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
oh yeah? then i think i have to go bookstore to find out these books, don't know can i get it here or not. thanks for your suggestion
@cromainer (218)
• Philippines
14 May 12
there's really a time that a person may feel like what you've feel.. there's no wrong in trying something new. it's healthy instead.. but don't be pressured because of the persons around you.. they build grudges in your mind that tends you to feel like that. just be natural of what you really are. hmm, i think you may go somewhere where you could feel refresh.. why visit your relatives? or like exchanging conversations with strangers we don't know, those strangers are the keys to make you energetic.. i compliment your faith in God.. don't worry, He'll make a way. :)
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
ya, i think i really have to go somewhere else just to calm down my mind and think about what kind of life style do i really want. thank you for your concern =)
@olliekobra1 (1825)
•
1 Jun 12
I think that we all get like that at times and it sounds like you need a change maybe you could change job or even go travelling to help stimulate the mind. I started earning money online to stimulate me and i found that it does help.
@innerdoll (60)
• Hong Kong
15 May 12
Doing physical exercises always help with downness or no/ low-energy problems. Perhaps you may try quick walking for 5-10 minutes tomorrow or preferably now. And see how your feel may change. You may feel tired or think the exercise a waste of time, but at least you have some "other" new feelings apart from your current/ on-going sense of tireness of the mind and soul.