When did your relationship with your parents change?
By innerdoll
@innerdoll (60)
Hong Kong
May 14, 2012 9:55pm CST
Many people were close to their mum and dad when they're small. However, the relationship alters at some point. I wonder if that is a gradual or sudden change. It's like 2 people ought to be the closest friend but before you discovered, you two becomes strangers, no longer sharing thoughts or even love. Do you remember how and when the relationship with your mum/ dad changed?
5 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 May 12
No, i would like to believe that nothing has changed between me and my parent's relationhip.. my mom of course... because we have been really doing good all the time. it is not a perfect relationship... we do not have good conversation all the time but we can be really good at being together, shopping together, we talk about current events and well sometimes talk about friends and my brothers. he he
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
15 May 12
My relationship with Mom changed when I started to rebel. There were many do's and don't at home and Mom was really strict about it. My relationship with mom turned for the worse when I fell in love and decided to get married at a very young age. However, mom gave in to the idea even if it hurt her so much to see her only daughter wasting her life with a man who was not worth it. I didn't know this then because I was blind with love. It is only now that I have realized that Mom was right after all and all she wanted was for me to have a better future. It was not to restrict a romance but she instinctively felt there and then that I made the biggest mistake in my life. Now , mom and I have have recaptured the old relationship and it was not to late to tell her that she was right and I was wrong.
@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
15 May 12
Im the opposite, my relationship with my parents started to be better when I entered university, before we were like strangers that sometime I did not even meet my parents and I can even count how many words we spoke to each other. but then when I entered university and until now everything is doing good, we still have different opinion or have a little conflict but unlike before, we shop together and we hang out every sunday to go picnic or just dinner outside. it is nice to be close with family members. it is not only with my parents but also with my siblings as well.
@jupijupi77 (257)
• Malaysia
15 May 12
Well,I'm not really close to my mom when I was a child because I were to close with my dad but my relationship with my mom sudden changed when I've been in high school.After I got married we become more close like a best friend..We share everything.
