Protective mother

I don't have a protective mother and I'm really happy for that but that doesn't mean that she had not been a good mother to me and siblings. I think she had taught everything we'll need to survive life, she had shaped us to be strong emotionally, mentally and spiritually. She had taught us what freedom is like and learn independence when it comes to decision making. But she had not been inadequate in guiding us as well, so I'm really happy that I've been lucky to be given a good and wonderful mother such as her. And because of this, I think I won't be able to give you a useful advice because I've never been in a situation like yours, I'm sorry. But, can't you tell her directly on what and how you feel about this? Maybe when you and your Mom had a good talk it'll get through her and she'll probably understand you.

How old are you? Mothers can be extremely protective when it comes to their children who aren't of legal age yet. You could always become more independent. My mom used to baby me to the extent of embarrassing me, saying things like, "My daughter doesn't eat foods bought from a street vendor" when in actuality I love eating street foods. During my college years, I started cooking for myself and helping in the chores aside from washing my own stuff. I also saved some of my allowance so I can afford things I need for school. After I graduated, I moved out of my mom's house so I could live independently.

Yeah... I think i do have a protective mother. she has to be like that with me because i am the only girl in the family... and well i guess it is not so bad, she just cares for us, a way too much though at times but she is really manageable. :D

talk to her and then show her that is the only way to assure mothers and do not ever break her trust or else she will go nuts. i know, i am a mom.