If I dont ask from you who else should I ask for it?

Uh uh...maybe that friend is just having fun and kidding you. Uhmnn, well, where is your mamu. He haven't send my sari yet and also the two way ticket

Hi Sid, When I go to some of my friend's home, I will directly go to their kitchen and will directly serve myself, if I feel so and vice versa. It simply resembles the closeness and we won't do it anywhere else unless we don't have such a closeness and there are places where we won't even mind to sit or place our seat unless someone asked for it. We would keep our manners wherever required and tempted to act depend on who and where. Last month when I visited my native village and gone to an old close friends home, and we were spend most of our time in kitchen and I don't think people would do like this they are so close to each other. However, some people can't understand the meaning of such things becasue they never can think of such things as they can't even imagine of such things. I still believe that sincere friendship has no boundaries and it can be of anything..., but sadly the percentage ratio of such habits are being reduced due to the 'broad-minded'ness of the current generation. Thank-s

Hi Bro You are always welcome for those chicks and ice creams ... Same way, I guess even i am welcomed anytime , right? My refrigerator is working quite well, so you can come anytime for something cold. I don't like chocos , so hope you won't mind with cold coffee..

There's really nothing wrong with that sids. If you know that your friend has plenty in life, then asking for a bar or a box of chocos, will not be a problem to him at all.

Hi buddy! How I wish we're neighbors so I can always give you some chocos everytime hubby comes home,haha! Crystal is very much fond of eating chocolates my friend,in fact, I just bought some kisses for her as she insisted on buying it. I think you and Crystal will surely get along,haha! I don't see anything wrong from asking a friend of what you want buddy. At least, you are asking for it,they dont have to guess what they are supposed to give you,haha!

hi Sid, I am going to send you a boxful of chocos for this disc. as i know you (thru mylot) and i feel you are not asking anything to any strangers. Have you observed any kids? It is one of the kid's behaviors (or that's my observation) to ask for something to those who treat them with love and kind (other than their parents). So your demands make me feel home in this virtual world. Tell him you have stopped hot coffee during summers and demand for an ice cream from this friend. He expects you to grow up and we (at least me)expect you to be the same as you are irrespective of our/my star or reputation.

The only thing I see here that could be a problem would be if you continue to ask favors of your friends without ever letting them know that you feel in debt to them and would be very happy to return those favors anytime. If you never let them know you would love to help them out if needed but continue to ask favors then you will get what you are getting from them. Expressing gratitude for their help makes all the difference.

Hi Bhai! Write me so I know how you are! Ok my response. I see it both ways. You have the right to be you but your friend has the right to bring this issue up if it bothers him. It doesn't hurt to ask but what if the answer is no? if your friend didn't have the money for coffee, would you Still want to spend time with him? to him he feels like your coffee sponsor and not a friend.

As long as you offer something back once in a while, you won't be known a a moucher. But on the other hand, where I live it's common curtesy to offer whatever you have.

hot coffee? i love coffee. i love chocolates to. but dont ask unless someone is asking me all the time. guess your friend is either stingy or miserly at least you dont get them taken out of your mouth like i had to do poor coco last night. my new discussion explains that....lol

Hmmmmm what is wrong with that? atleast you are asking not stealing! If i am near i would gladly give you chocolates..

I have a friend who always eat my chocolate I don't mind at all, and my close friends know that they can just take the chocolate, food or drinks that they want when they are at my house. I don't think that you are shameless or a beggar. For me it is natural thing to share the things that I have with my friends, and they also share their things with me. They even buy chocolate especially for me because they know that I love sweet things. If it is a close friend I don't feel bad about asking for extra candy or food.

Umh...i don't know about the culture in there, but in here...you should not do like that too many times. I mean with friends, we can say, ask free them to do something for you but still there is a limitation.

Hi godson I prefer your old friend to serve me a hot choco. I think your friend really wants to make you sweat some more that's why he still serves you hot drinks in this hot season. For me, there is nothing wrong with asking favors or goodies as long as you feel close and comfortable with the person. I brought Hello Panda choco-biscuit for me and my lunchmate today. And we ordered, watermelon shakes. We never asked who's gonna bring something, we're just bringing and giving. If I asked her or she asked me for something we also won't mind as long as we can afford it. So want any goodies?

Sids, I think it's good that you communicate openly with your friend. True friends have excellent communication, and it's good that you feel you can go to him to make these requests. There is a fine line between being friends and mooching, though, so be sure to balance that out. For me, if I were close by, I wouldn't mind if you made requests of me. I'd rather you come right out and ask for what you want rather than beating around the bush and throwing hints. If you want something, just ask! Don't be subtle about it or people don't know what is expected of them. I think your friend needs to know that you're grateful for his generosity as well. If I were him, as long as I knew my gestures in fulfilling your requests were appreciated, that would be enough for me. By nature, I'm a giver. I get fulfillment out of giving of myself to others, especially to those who have very little. Also remember that your friend has a right to say "no" to your request. No matter what he chooses to do when you make your request, I respect that you have a great friendship, and I'm glad he is so kind to you!

Sorry,I know it's not my custom to start a reply with "rofls",but it's just sooooo funny.Okay,let me do it again in the right way: Hi,thesids~ (Why do the three smileys always run out so quickly? Ugh~~~:P) Haha,he should be the bad one. He actually gave you hot coffee? Awww,I feel so sorry that he actually did it to you. Tell him that there is a girl named Sarah that says he is really mean~~~Lalala~~~Just don't show him my avatar.He might get angry and punch the not-so-real me.:p Just kidding. Haha~ I'm sure your friends like you and they don't care about your "reputation". I would think it sweet if my friends just come and feel like they are with someone who don't care if they say something wrong or make mistakes. And I think it's really cute of you to ask for goodies from your friends. LOL~

Hi Sids, No its OK let them feel what they feel but its good that you said what you feel at least a person can say this to his friend.Don't worry you can ask me for chocos and ice cream i won't say anything. I understand how difficult is to stay home all alone i don't know how your friend said that i don't expect it from my friends.

I'm not into begging or asking people for favors like that. I feel it is disrespectful after awhile to always ask. I don't like people constantly asking me for something... like why don't they buy it themselves? Can I have toilet paper, can I have paper towels, can I have 2 cups of sugar, can I have ... can I have!? It gets tiring after awhile. I don't mind helping but I don't want to be taken advantage of.

there's nothing wrong from asking.at least you're asking kindly and not steal from them.. :)

lol idk ask yourself that question and see what he says lol, just be you!