I Don't Mean to Promote Myself that I am Single

Don't worry you will get your lover soon.You have a job,lot of friends and I'm sure you will.For me 26 is a great time for men to make a relationship with a girls..Its all about a time.Maybe you're too choosy(maybe). Don't get me wronged.What I mean is not everybody is perfect right..as long as you feel comfortable with the girl and can accept as what she was just go on friend.

Hmmm...do you wear eyeglasses? if yes, then I might want to date you but if you do not wear eyeglasses then forget it Well, you are still young dont worry of being single I know so many guys get married when they are 30 years old or older. Let us analyze what is your problem why you still single until now. 1st. you have a job, I dont know what is your occupation but i think it is an advantage for you because many parents want their daughter to marry someone who has a job. 2nd. You have many girl as friends than boys, why dont you try to court on of your friends to get to know better? Ask yourself, what kind of girls you want to date. Do you think you have too much expectation in a relationship? Are you expecting a perfect girl to be your lover? Are you a shy person? 3rd. Analyze what happened to your previous relationship, you said you tried to court a girl but it is end up as friendship. Maybe you did not treat her as a lover and that is why the relationship end up as friendship only.

You say that you don't mean to, but you are promoting yourself by telling people that you are, just to let you know. Anyway, I hope that you do find someone and that she is the person that you want and need, and treat her right. I have a boyfriend and it's not easy. Relationships are always tough.

Maybe you should give up smoking?

It depends, first you must consider your looks, we must all admit that 98% of the relationships start from being attracted to once physical appearance. In dating sites, most people post pictures that sometimes those pictures become another faces. Most of the dating sites doesn't really guarantee relationship, if you're a foreigner then dating site might work. I can see in your grammar that you are a Filipino. Filipino girls would look for guys with 4 qualifications 1) Handsome 2) Rich 3) height 4) witty. The first and second is must for an average girl the additional 3rd and 4th is for the above average girls. But if you know to yourself and accept that your face is not that good, perhaps you can lower down your qualifications to a girl. Yes, there are SOME pretty girls that doesn't look for a rich handsome with height and a witty guy but they are very rare. Back in high school girls are much more easier to get because they lack experience and thanks to those romantic movies and tv series that makes them more fooled about love. But of course you can't go back to high school. You have a better chance to have a girlfriend outside the cyber world. If you want I can give you some guidelines and help you to have girlfriend. Don't worry I will not ask money in return or anything I just want to help you.

first of all, I would say, best of luck for your internet Girlfriend searching. what were the reasons you are not in relationship with any girl/boy? was it study? career? etc. some people give importance to study rather than girls or girlfriends in their college days and that is why when they get settled they regret about it and I think that is what happening with you. it is just my guess. there is nothing wrong in being single, you need to understand that because you may think that you are lacking somewhere or you did not live your life fully.

I think you have a small problem, plekenut! Maybe you are not wild enough to court girls, everyone is destined to have someone, you may fall in and out of love in your life, you have a job so why worry, you are only 30s I guess, wait for the time, bro, you will find one suitable online, if there is a will there is a way. Insyallah!

Good Luck and all the best!

hi plekenut, Being single is not bad though there are people who wanted to have a partner I do believe that everyone is destined to be with someone Who knows if not today but tomorrow or next day you will find your partner Love comes in unexpected time of our life happy mylotting