So...Where did your name come from?
By jhustinian
@jhustinian (612)
Philippines
May 16, 2012 6:23am CST
Did you ever ask your parents which of them had given you your name and what inspired them to give that name to you?
Me? I always ask, but I don't really get any interesting story about the history of my name. Just that my Mom heard it and she was quite surprised that it could actually be use for girls as well. Don't get me wrong I really love my name, but I do envy other people who have interesting stories behind their given name.
I haven't learned yet so I'll torment myself more about this so I'm still gonna ask you, lol! So where did your name come from anyway? Please share me your wonderful stories, so I'll get jealous of it even more. *wink*
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@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
16 May 12
I think I have an interesting story about where my name comes from. My father and my mother at that time were girlfriend and boyfriend, my father had to go for the military service , they got engaged and he promesed my mom to comeback and marry her after he finished it. While he was at the militar place , my father met another woman felt atracted to her , but , he was engaged with my mom, well, after 2 years he finished his service he went back to the town where my mom was and got marry with her, they had 9 children and I am the number 10th of the family , all those years he talked to my mom about that lady , when I was borned my father asked my mom if they could name me that lady s name, my mom wasnt that jealous and said yes, it was ok with her , so, I got that name, (only that name so , people can call me that name), after that, my father stoped talking about that lady , and we lived happily ever after.
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
You have a good Mom, it really surprises me to hear stories like this. I have also a friends whose name came from his father's former love interest, so your Mom is really cool to have let your Father named you after the girl. ^^ Your Father is awesome too! :D
@allknowing (137771)
• India
17 May 12
I was named after my paternal grand mother and in those days the home people never called you by the real name but by a name that was totally 'murdered'!
Whenever I misbehaved they would say 'she has taken after the grandmother!'
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@allknowing (137771)
• India
17 May 12
Let's assume the name is Angelina - not my real name and that would be Anju!
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Hmm..I'm really curious about this 'murdered' thing. What do you really mean by that?
LOL! I usually hear that actually! :D
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Oh, I see. I've known someone from my childhood whose name for real is Christian but his nickname was Brutus. The latter doesn't really sound appealing to my country so I guess that's just the same as 'murdered' name. I now understand.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
16 May 12
My mother named me and its a name she loved....no explaination other then that. When I named my kids they all had a reason. Dawn my oldest because it was the beginning to f a new life for me. My ex name our second daughter....and my son's name means leader to the promised land.
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Your ex's name! Wow, your partner is amazing then, to have let you name your child with it. I like the sound of Dawn, it's really nice and have some deep implications in it. Joshua, or not? I like that name too, it sounds so serene to me. :D
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
@sishy LOL! Yeah, I misunderstand her, I re-read her comment when you told me this, and realized my mistake. ^^
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@chan2zexy (508)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Seeing this thread made me smile. My parents actually were expecting a baby boy and they already decided on a male name but then, God gave them a baby girl. So they just chose the female variation of that name. Instead of just forgetting about that "baby boy thing", they gave me a baby boy's nickname instead. =D
@chan2zexy (508)
• Philippines
18 May 12
You can start using a nickname if you want. ;) In our culture, most people have nicknames. Some nicknames sound silly. XD Apart from the 1st letter of my 1st name and my nickname, my nickname's a bit not connected to my 1st name at all. So when people ask why I have such nickname, I have to share the history of my name to them. Hehe! =D I'm really thankful that they gave a female name though. I couldn't imagine myself being called by a male's name. XD
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Aww..that's cute, I've also heard from a friend that her parents had the same situation as yours. They were expecting a boy but her Mom gave birth to a girl, but the difference is, they still named the child the same name they would've given to a baby boy. ^^ You have a nickname too! That's purely awesome...I don't really have one actually, I'm kind of jealous with nick names too! LOL! Silly me right? ^^
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
20 May 12
I had a nickname before, but when I grew up my family stopped calling me by that name. I think they've only used it to baby when I'm still a child. I really like nicknames because unlike other countries, when you call a person by the nickname in our country, it means that you're close or affectionate to the person.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
20 May 12
Yes, it's a sign of gratitude and it was really awesome. It's a very heart-swelling deed.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Wow, I bet the doctor was really flattered and happy when he/she learned that the baby he helped to be given birth to this world had been named after him/her. I think if I were the doctor I would really feel wonderful and it's really refreshing. ^^
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Aww...that's wonderful, your name has a meaning too. I'm now having a guessing-game for all the responses I've got. But mostly, I really don't have any idea, like yours I really don't know much about gems and their symbolism. It's hard to guess what's yours. ^^
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@GardenGerty (160952)
• United States
16 May 12
My first name came from an English actress in a movie my parents saw. My middle name my dad says he made up, it is similar to the name of a flower. When I search it now it comes up as being the nick name of a wealthy young lady a long time ago. My son, I just liked the name, I wanted something different and strong. My daughter is named by a friend of mine, at least her first name. Her middle name was one I liked but I did not like it for a first name. Again, I wanted a strong name. My son's name means a noble one who conquers or a conquering noble one. My daughter's name means called of God and triumphant or victorious. I kind of try to feel the personality of my child before it is born and match it with a name.
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
I have little ideas about your children's names, although not specifically. ^^ I've had my share of knowledge when it comes to name meanings because I've searched mine before and stumbled upon other names. ^^ It's nice that you feel their personalities first before deciding for a name, wouldn't want them to have names that doesn't really suit them right? :D You're a good parent. :D
@angelwithkids (1256)
• United States
17 May 12
my dad told me that when he was a teenager, he had a dream. in this dream, he met a girl. her name was michelle dianne. he thought it was the name of his future wife. instead, he married a girl who's name is juanita dianne. they had a baby girl..ME. dad told her about his dream and she agreed to use the name on me. so that's how i got my name. when i had my daughter, i named her after her grandmother (on her dad's side) and my mother's best friend- Patricia. then i passed down the middle name...dianne. she's told me that when she has a baby girl, she's going to keep the middle name going as a family tradition. :) i look forward to the day i get to meet the newest dianne in the family! (hopefully, i'll be waiting for a few years).
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Wow, your Dad had a great dream then! I've never dreamed of someone telling me a stranger's name, that's so cool! :D I really like the story behind your name! :D
@Yheart (496)
• Indonesia
19 May 12
My father gave me the name with my mother agreement. They both decided it. They hope I'll be a generous and good human with the name. But ooh.... it's really a common name in my country. There were always some kids with the same name in my class. Can you imagine how many times I turned around when I heard 'my name' called then found out it wasn't me? However, I still like this name.
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
20 May 12
Yeah, that's actually the reason why I'm very happy with my name because I've never had any classmate or any acquaintance who had the same name as me, so I was never confused when people are just shouting and calling the name of the other. I actually had 2 best friends in elementary and coincidentally, they have the same name and they both do not have second names either, so it's kinda hard when you call the other and both will turn their heads to you.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
16 May 12
I am named after my granny (so there wouldn't be a fight about who is named after whom) since my parents do find these names ugly the added an other name to it and call me by that one.
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Haha! I actually find it cute when I see that scene, the parents fighting over which name should be followed. :D At least they had compromise sooner huh. :D Thanks for responding, have a nice day! :D
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
16 May 12
My name is derived from one of the president of USA. But with a slight twist on the spelling, my name becomes somewhat original. I know many people with the common spelling of my name, but I have yet to see anyone having similar name spelled the way mine is.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
*grumbles* I don't have much luck on guessing the names of the respondents..and I'm not very familiar with US Presidents too so I don't have any idea what's your name..'?3?
It's great that even if your name is quite common, the spelling of your version is very much unique that you've never met anyone with the name same as yours. My sister is like that too, we've never encountered anyone with the same spelling as her, even in the internet. ^^
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@chymez_me (186)
• Philippines
16 May 12
I haven't really tried asking my parents about the history of my name..But me and my sisters have two names though and we always have MAE on our name.. I don't know why they named us with that.. :)
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
It's a common tradition in our country, to have name similarities with our siblings. My Mother and Father had named me and my siblings with J as first letter, that's the tradition in our humble family. ^^ Maybe you should now ask your parents why did they give you you first name, who knows, there might be a good story behind it! :D
@thepooloflust (163)
• United States
16 May 12
I was named after my godmother (who was more like a grandmother to me, since I never got to meet any of my other grandparents). Anyways, my parents basically met through her and so that's how my first name came along. My middle name is from my maternal grandmother and I guess my mom wanted me to be named after her in some way. I was going to be named either Juanita (but my parents thought it would be too hard for me and other people to spell or pronounce) or if I was a boy I would most likely have been named Donnie (which is the name of my dad... and my mom's ex... and her son...)
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Wow...then your name which came from your godmother proves that you're the lovechild of your Mom and Dad. I can't help it but it really sounds romantic to me, for your Mom and Dad to meet through your Godmother, and them deciding their child to be named after her, it's so sweet!? So are you the first born then? (You don't have to answer if you're not feeling comfortable, sorry for prying I'm just really a curious kitten.^^)
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
20 May 12
Pet?! lol! Why would you call yourself such as that? ^^
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 May 12
First I must confess Sarah Ruth Beth is the name I wish I was born with. My real name I hate with every fiber of my being. Almost everyone either misspells it or mispronounces it. As a little girl I took it that I didn't deserve my name to be correct. it really didn't matter. As A teen I pi$$ed me off that I had to correct Everybody. The ironic thing is , my name is my mom's favorite girl name. I was told I was named Before I was a glimmer in my dad's eye, lol. But i hate it! Funny , both my sister and my mom hate their given names too. So on paper and a work I'm my hated name but here I'm Sarah Ruth Beth. How did I come up with Sarah Ruth Beth? Well I always loved the name Sarah And I wanted to add Beth, a form of my real middle name Elizabeth. But when I came here There was a Sarah Beth here already so I thought about it and added Ruth, another name I love. Now I love my name I use here!
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 May 12
The good thing is once I got to use Sarah I began to like myself more! Now when people butcher my other nsme I don't get upset because I'm Sarah! It's weird! Yes both my mom used a form of her middle name and my sister uses her middle name. I guess I could have gone by a form of my middle name but I never thought of it. And I guess I could have legally changed it like my sister did but since it is my mom's favorite name and I lose her in 2005 I see this move as disrespectful. she was hurt to find out how much I hated my name. I never told her how low I felt Having to correct everybody. it made me feel like a nothing . at the time she was happy I was still here though. So That is why I still have it as a legal name.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Woah...with every fiber of your being?! You clearly announced that you hate it. (O_o) And it seems like that runs in your family. ^^ At least you're satisfied with your online name...^^
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@fran429 (502)
• United States
17 May 12
I was named after my great grandfather. Or, so my family thought. I was 3.5 months old when he passed away & that was when everyone found out that he lied about his middle name. It was really Stanley not Samuel like he told everyone. I'm grateful that he lied, I like Samantha better than Stella anyways! ;-)
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
20 May 12
Your Grandpa was a mysterious guy huh. ^^ It's kinda funny that he had kept his real name from his relatives, although it could also be caused by an error when his birth certificate was made. My father had the same problem before, his Birth and Baptismal certificate had different names so he had underwent legal procedures to fix it. Yeah, Samantha sounds really nice. :D
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@sumanadep (1228)
• India
16 May 12
MY name is a very common name.. and it means flowers.. and I have asked my parents about who selected this name for me..
and it was a usual answer.. which is again common here.. the name is selected according to the astrology which consider the time and date on birth ..sometimes the place and name of parents too..
@sumanadep (1228)
• India
17 May 12
MY name is in my username.. Suman Adep.. This tradition of using the astrology for names have been used in many cultures and In India it has been for a long time.. some even say that the names of the GODs also has the same method..
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
I wonder what your name is, I've been trying to guess the other myLotters' names who have responded here, but I have no such luck in most of them. ^^ I've heard something like that as well, I've heard that tradition mostly in Japan and China.
@babyEj, you don't have to be Buddhist to adopt that tradition though...My Mom also told me that back then, there was a calendar where names are included for every date of each month, that's where she got her name. I'd actually want to see a calendar like that too. ^^
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 May 12
My first-name--Jason ... it could've been just `coz a lot of cool people had that name, it could've been because some people (doctors, accountants, nerds, etc.) had researched some name-meanings and told my parents that the name that means closest to 'medicine-man' is "Jason."
My middle-name--Harry--was my dad's middle-name. Means "home-ruler," in case you're curious.
My last-name--Hubbard--was the last-name of my grandfather's foster-parents, so I'm tempted to take my mom's maiden-name---Determan, which means "paid-for worker."
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
21 May 12
Yeah, I also couldn't find my last name on 'Behind the Surname' (like 'Behind the Name,' sites you can "Search the Web" for and maybe find your names' histories), tho my mom went to "Mother Hubbard's" in Ireland on her trip there, which might be where my last name comes from.
And yeah, Jason the 'Master of the House' (one of my favorite Karaoke-songs from Les Miserables) who the Greek Jews (who were not moved to Christianity by Paul) dragged out into the public square when searching for Paul to accuse him of blaspheming Caesar.
But wasn't the Argonauts' Jason first?
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
20 May 12
When I would hear the name Jason, I would always be reminded of the Greek hero in their mythologies. You sure know the meaning of your name(s)..that's pretty interesting. So far, I only know the meaning of my first name, I've never tried searching what my surname could mean. I better try doing a little research now, I think it would be cool. ^^
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@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Oh my Gosh! I've received this answer more times that I have expected, but it still surprises me! I'm still grinning right now...I really can't help it! ^^
@jolly_tin (48)
•
16 May 12
When I asked my mother where she got my name, she said my god mother suggested it. I was born in the month of December since it was the birth month of Jesus my godmother decided to get my name from Christ and Mary. My first name was taken from Mary and my second name was the girl version of Christ. Everything came from the suggestion of my god mother.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Your family seems religious oriented. A lot of Filipinos get their name from the Bible, even Judas (traitor) name.
@jhustinian (612)
• Philippines
17 May 12
I can clearly guess what your name is. ^^ It's a breath of fresh air to be able to guess one's name by their description, and yours is a lot easier than other myLotters that have kept their name a secret. :D Are you, by any chance, really close to your godmother till now?
I rarely see my godparents, and I really don't have any close relationship with them, we're just actually like acquaintances. *sigh* I wish we've been close, it would really be sweet to be able to treat them just like a second family to me.
Anyway, thanks for participating! :D