best move for a husband when the wife is in the height of her anger
By nicanorr
@nicanorr (1789)
Philippines
May 16, 2012 7:35am CST
a heated discussion arose between husband and wife over a third party. Wife reaches her boiling point, shouts, claws, bites, kicks and hurls everything her hands can lay on on her husband. What's the best move for the husband at the given moment?
5 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
16 May 12
i quite agree, and if i may add based on my own experience, lol!, silence would surely create a still moment and the best option is to embrace, hug or touch her hand, or even better if you would just simply look in her eyes and sincerely say you how much you love her.
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@atha13 (159)
• Malaysia
17 May 12
Personally I think the best way for the husband when his wife gets to her boiling point is don't say any words that can add fuel to the fire. Try not to raise voice, but speak gently to calm her down. Honesty is the key, and if it was the husband fault, just admit the mistake and apologize.
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@sinnedsejatnom (1311)
• Philippines
16 May 12
When I am in this situation, I would leave the house and let our minds be at peace. When everything is calm, I'll go back and try to talk to her about the problem depending on how she reacts. If the reaction is bad, I'd still try to keep quiet and wait for the right time. Maybe that is the best move. :)
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
17 May 12
wait ... wait ... wait for the storm to calm down. Oh! woman, what happened to the nectar that we have shared together in the name of love? Yes, when the tempest is done and the sea runs smooth, I'll approach her with an armful of tender hugs and kisses.
@blaqwynter (218)
• Canada
17 May 12
Leave the wife alone, until she calls you back into the house. You may want to prepare yourself for a few nights away at a motel or a friends place if its that bad. She must have had a good reason to be this angry!
