Why stay?
By chicgale
@chicgale (2982)
Philippines
May 16, 2012 8:19am CST
I have a male friend who kept telling me that he really love his girlfriend. But, what I don't understand is he always cheated on her. She didn't know anything about him cheating with her. He just trust him so much. This man chatted with me on Facebook tonight and he was flirting with me. He knew that I am married and this is not the first time he flirted with me. One time I saw him at the mall and asked me for a coffee when I was with my sister and daughter and after we had coffee, he touched my waist and told me that I look hot! So, I got offended by that and told him not to do that anymore! So, tonight he asked me if I can come over to his house coz he was alone! So, I got angry! I told him that his girlfriend doesn't deserve to be with a cheater like him! And I told him not to bother me anymore or to ever chat with me anymore coz I don't like a person like him. So, that's it! I blocked him! LOL
How can a man kept telling his friends how he love his girlfriend but always cheat on her? He even told me how he had the best night at the motel with the girl at work. Oh God! This man doesn't have conscience!
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18 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Probably your male friend is sick.
He needs some professional help.
He only plays with girls and so pity of his girlfriend who trusted him that much.
If he can't stick with his his girlfriend, better he has to let her go than cheating her.
He thinks all girls will fall for him huh? (egoistic)-opps sorry, I am saying too much (lols)
Well, not all men are cheat- and your male friend deserves some punch in the nose to wake him up.
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Yes, egoistic, that'r right.. hehehhe Yeah, he is very selfish that he didn't wanna let her go coz he is afraid that he won't have a girlfriend anymore. And these women he went out with, knew also that he is in a relationship. So, I don't understand these people.. hehehhehe
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
17 May 12
I am glad that you were able to tell him what you thought. She doesn't deserve to be treated that way. I don't get it when people do things like that to others.
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
17 May 12
he is just a player and it's really sad that his girlfriend has to deal with it. she must know something on some level. guys like that are not really all that slick. don't worry, he will slip out and show his true colors. i only hope that she does before they get married.
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@blaqwynter (218)
• Canada
17 May 12
PLAYER! is the first thing that came into my mind. If I'm going to cheat, I am going to let my lover know that I'm into open relationships, and would expect them to be open about having an open relationship too. Now if its exclusive, cheating is bad. I don't like it, because you always hide it from your partner. This guy needs to wake up!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
16 May 12
I guess that guy just wanted you to feel 'secure', secure in the sense that he wanted to make you feel that there would be nothing wrong with hanging out with him because he's "loyal". Obviously, he just wanted something from you. Since he knew you were married, perhaps you thinking that he's 'safe' would make him have the chance to do some moves.
Those types of guys should be steered clear from. I would do the same and avoid and block him and never let him have the chance with me, ever!
As for the girlfriend. It's a pity about her not seeing these things. She would just be awake one day to find out that the boyfriend has too many skeletons in the closet. And she'd be heartbroken for sure.
Have a great Mylot experience ahead!
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@laken02 (3065)
• United States
16 May 12
do you know his girlfirend ? if so i feel that she needs to know that he is a cheater and know how he really is, i feel bad for her trusting him and all and one day he may give her a disease from all the women he is with and that is very bad that is why i would tell her if i knew her she deserves to know and have the option to let his sorry butt go.. and if she stays she deserves what she gets..
i hope she finds pout soon about him its ashame he does this .. to her .. why dont he just let her go .. makes me wonder ....
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Oh my gosh! How can a guy be like that?
I also wonder what's with the title, "why stay?"
Well, I guess he is only after for the lust...and not love. I don't know if he really loves his girlfriend but then, if he does, it might be he just wanted to flirt a lot...
It's good that you have blocked him to stop chatting and have communication with him...besides you already have a husband? Am i right? or even so, you still have a child with you and he flirts like that with you? how disgusting! might be a maniac or something...
I also wonder what's with the title, "why stay?"
Well, I guess he is only after for the lust...and not love. I don't know if he really loves his girlfriend but then, if he does, it might be he just wanted to flirt a lot...
It's good that you have blocked him to stop chatting and have communication with him...besides you already have a husband? Am i right? or even so, you still have a child with you and he flirts like that with you? how disgusting! might be a maniac or something...1 person likes this
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
16 May 12
men are weird. and I totally agree with you...what's the point in staying with someone as long as you keep seeing other people too. I don't think he would appreciate if his girlfriend did the same to him. now about your situation...it's pretty hard to say what you should do...do you intend in telling you friend about her boyfriend's behaviour towards you and other women? I don't know what I would do. It's good that you cut him off. it's really not nice what he;s doing to that girl
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@xiaohongxiaohong (340)
•
16 May 12
This man is sucks!How poor his girl friend is. chicgale, it is a nice choice that you blocked him. I really don't like this kind of person. If he do the same way to me , I swear I will slap him heavily!
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@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
16 May 12
i think the girlfriend of this guy deserves to know everything. and i think he really doesn't love his girlfriend. he is only using the word love to win girls. blocking him is the best thing to do.
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@ladyhemingway (965)
• Philippines
16 May 12
I hate guys like that. If I were in your place I would tell my friend that she doesn't deserve someone like that and I will even show the chat transcripts of our conversation just so I can prove my point. Because seriously, your friend needs someone to save her from that kind of guy.
