Fear of change

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So often say that tomorrow things will be different, that will "fix" what is broken in our lives that we change! But, as many times, we remain only words. We got used to our lives this way, therefore, everything that comes to changing our comfort zone is not acceptable. Even though in some cases we need to change, even if things do not work as it should go, we prefer to continue in this way than to have to face the unknown. That is why some people willing to continue relationships that already smells rotten. Not because they feel good in them, not because they bring happiness, but because they are afraid of change. They are afraid of that feeling you do not know what will happen next or what will happen. That is why we prefer to stand by the old office and let us do the job, without thinking more than we can. Not to dare to want more. Fear of change is "guilty" for many other things. She stopped people from moving to other cities, because it was their fear of the unknown again, even inadequacy. He stopped people from doing what they like, what they are passionate. They are afraid to quit their current job for life's passion. They are afraid to part with someone, it would not trash the 3-4 years spent together. In fact, the real fear is that I think will find someone else to accept them as. We do not want to take risks. We do not want to get out of our comfort zone and change something that brings us more or less quiet. I want to tell you something is wrong at times to let bird in hand bird in the bush. Yes, is a high risk and perhaps even a major change. But ... if the bird is yours?