I do miss him a lots...but i scare............
By ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
Vietnam
May 16, 2012 11:42pm CST
I had not been talking with my boyfriend for 3 days already: no message, no sms, no phone call...I haven't done like this since i am being in the love with him. I really do miss him and wanna see him and talk again with him. But i am afraid that debates, conflicts may happens again as it happened recently. I really hate debates, conflicts...why we can't be nice, happy together as in previous time?
I really don't know what i should do next....
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6 responses
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
18 May 12
What was the last conversation like? Did you fight?
There are times when my partner and I fight too and we usually patch things up before we go to bed. But there were times too when it took several days or even weeks.
Just think of other things, do not remain idle so that you won't think about it more. Most probably your boyfriend is doing the same. Hopefully he doesn't view this silence as a true separation.
Good luck and hoping for the best. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
18 May 12
Thank you for your caring, Laydee. I think keep non-talking is good for me, but i really don't know it harms to my relationship or not..at least i feel better without debating, conflicts.
I do hope as you said: he doesn't view this silence as a true separation.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
18 May 12
Communication is really impornat with your boy friend otherwise it will keep you both far away. So stop you debates and love him. If your boy friend put up an debate just close them and spent time for loving each other and make sure that you don't go behind the debate or arguments
@laura1989 (12)
• China
17 May 12
Conflict is an essential part of the relationship, how ironic, ha?
Recently, I've been quarrelling with my boyfriend nearly everyday. We quarrel every night, become so furious at each other. Stay calm, then either he come to beg my parden or I make hime beg my parden. Then we went back to normal, with I go to bed still angry and he go to bed in a good mood fantasying he has got my forgiveness.
Some times I just find myself cannot stand all the cycling of life any more....
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
17 May 12
Oh, you guys live together then there are many ways to be happy back as you said he got your forgiveness when he goes to bed in a good mood fantasying.
Currently my bf and I live far away, just talking on chatting or phone only. So that it is not easy to solve as your case....
@rashme317 (250)
• Philippines
17 May 12
in a relationship it's not at all times happy moments,sometimes there are conflict that may arise, you should talk about the conflict ,both of you must try to face it . conflict is already part of a relationship because after you settle your conflicts it will help you have a stronger relationship. it adds spice in your relationship,
good day and goodluck ,may you have a stronger relationship
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
17 May 12
ya, but how to get out of this and we can be happy back?
We are currently live far away so that talking by chatting/phone call only. I think should face to face for talking is better, but we can't do it now. I am afraid tat the problems may raise when talking by chatting via net..
@blaqwynter (218)
• Canada
17 May 12
The only thing you should do is try to communicate with him, as communication is key in any relationship. He's probably feeling the same way, and not sure how to approach you. Try talking to him, and if more petty arguments break out, then its time to be strong, and move on. Why be with someone you can't get along with? It's not fair to you or him. Be honest with yourself.
