Im Single and Complicated

he he...I have been single for 19 years ! Anyway for your case i think you said stright what you feel inside for mind.I appreciate it ! Find a person who love to ur inner beauty ! If they live a happy life don't be a barrier for them. If i love a girl and if she told me like that i will prove her that i love her .I'll do whatever she ask me to do except dying or harming myself (which is a stupid thing to do). I think (might be wrong)he is not interested about a long term relationship ! but for have fun with u! U are lucky because you escaped from a trap ! Pray to Jesus(God) ! He will definitely send you a good guy better than him at the right time ! All you need is to be a good girl.

Try to focus in other things.Acceptance could help to overcome the feeling.Enjoy life in other ways and for sure you will find the person that will truly love you back.Happiness.

I think your mistakenly interpret his good intention with you because your his friend. Since he know that you love him and he likes someone...he better to be apart from you to avoid any misunderstanding between you and his love...

If you don't like complications then don't enter in a complicated relationship. His basis for loving you was kinda off! Pretty immature. You should find somebody else who's worth it and not somebody who thinks he loves you, but in reality, love the girl who thought it was you.

I am sorry to hear that...i can understand your feeling when he lives with another girl while you still love him. You should answer the question: Does that guy will be back in relationship with you? If not, I think better you should move him out of your life, do anything to move his out of your heart. Going out to meet more people, and i hope that you will meet your right man soon.

It's a pity to miss someone we love so much for the fair of ourselves.However,you've missed the guy,so you should wish he could live happily with the girl he chose. BTW,you said "he and the girl lives together for 1 year",does this mean they two have got married?or just in a live-in relationship?If they've been married,what you should do is to give them your best wishes and spend some time to think about your own life carefully.But if they are just in a live-in relationship,you still have chance.I mean you can still wait for him,if you are still in love with him. Anyway,the feeling of missing someone we love is bad.You've done that once,so if the chance comes back,do not miss it again! Hope you can find the person you love and loves you in your life,friend!

If this guy has been living with the girl who looks like you for a Year,It seems He has already decided which of you he prefers...sorry,but it's not You... It's your choice whether you want to move on or not...

I am afraid you missed the chance, which wouldn't be the same again. I think it is wise for you to move on as you know he and his girl lives together for 1 year. This means they get on well too. I don't think your case is complicated as it is a single side love feelings. Hope you can find someone special soon. All the best!

I think that you have missed that guy and the clock can't be turned back. I believe that there is a better guy out there ideal for you that will love you. You can keep happy memories of the guy but you should move on and try to find someone better. The guy may be living with or married to the other girl. They have been together for one year and don't see them splitting up. I went out with the ideal guy and was sad when we split up. He dated a girl I knew after me and I didn't think she was at all right for him. Since her he dated a girl from Romania but it didn't work out. Then he moved on to a girl from the Netherlands but again it wasn't long before they split up. Now he is living with a girl and has been for four years. He is waiting until July to split up from her. She is going home and he won't let her come back into his life. I know that I have missed that guy and know years later I can see what he is like. Good luck finding and keeping your ideal guy both of you happy in love.

Hi ana, Time to move on, or you may run out of time waiting for the two lovers to cool down. You don't want to go threesome don't you? Some girls find it easy to do, being a guy myself, I have no hangups to have two relationships at the same time, its just the complication that get me in the end, time management, cost, and other unforeseen events...

I hate to be blunt, but you lost your chance. .. I have done this a few times myself, and now I take what I can get, when I can get it. I know it sounds harsh, but sometimes opportunities never come your way, so take the chance when you get it. I would move on, to a new man. He's happy, don't disturb that, because you could be stirring a hornets nest.. Other than that, you never know, say maybe a few months from now, they may break up; and then there is your 2nd chance! :-)

It's a nice feeling to fell inlove, but you have to put value for yourself above all. All I can say is "wake up". YOu have to move-on, take time to unwind and have some fun not just stucking up to that feelings because we know that this guy that you love has already have someone to be with. Put in your mind that he might be only using you as his figure to satisfy his needs since you've mentioned that you look like a girl that he likes....go go go...move on!

I know it's hard in that kind of situation, i have been there too..What i did i just moved on even i'm still thinking about that guy, i'm doing fun things so it will divert my attention from thinking of him..And now i totally forget my feelings for him..Someday you will find your someone..Each one of us has a right person for the right moment..Just continue spreading love..:D

I love you. :)

i know how it feels to love someone who doesn't love you in return , don't dwell with the past, live your life without him, he already have a girlfriend or a partner and i know it hurts so bad but you should move on ,focus your attention into something worthwhile .