Life need to go through the hardship.

In the end, it is our problems and our problems alone that we rather need to shoulder by ourselves. Any strength no matter what the source, yeah that will rather help. However, in the end, the problems are a test that we need to take. Whether or not we pass or fail said tests is really beside the point. The fact of the matter is that there are just going to be times where we are going to have those problems. Yet, problems are rather not something that is certainly rather bad all of the time a lot of the time. It is just things that we are going to deal with, and lessons that we are going to have to learn about. And to shove them off on some entity, that will "deal with them" is really unfair and really no lessons to be learned. In the end, there are things that are in our hands that we have to deal with.

I think that there is a lot to be said for people who have to go through hard things in their lives, because you will usually find that they will be able to cope with things a lot better later on in their lives because of the things that they have had to cope with. If you have things too easy in your life, you are never going to be able to learn how to deal with things, and you might find that you are unable to cope with any hard things that might happen in the later stages of your life, so it is always worth going through the hard times as they will make you stronger.

Are you saying that you just leave all your responsibilities to God?Our problems are our responsibilities that we must really face to tackle with our open minds how to solve it,that is why God has given us our minds to think,has given us hands to do all things needed,has given us a pair of feet to walk and move all necessary things to solve all our needs and problems.Now,if you do not move,and just ask the help from God.Do He really help you?

A pleasant day befrindwithme26, Honestly speaking, one thing I just believed, people need to learn the hardship in order for us to appreciate the blessings after all. However, it is really necessary to go on the hardship. Thus, sometimes, it is on our hand why we need to go on the hard way. Hence, it is always being given to us freely by God but we tend to disobey Him. As a result, we ended up on the hardship and trials. Thus, God is so good, that He always lend His hand to us. That even we did the wrong move and went to the hardway, still He leads us to the right way and turn the situation into a blessing.

hihih, if you can do it: think more positive,enjoy life and with people who is happy around you... then you are the happiest person. As what i know, we are all human being, and no one can do like it. Life will go up and down ...We can try and try to make our life in happiness only.

In life,you need to go through trial/problems,and suffering to test how strong and mature are you to handle such problem. Life becomes more meaningful with the challenges that we encounter and with every success as we surpass the challenges. I believe that we lift all our problems to God but we should not sit still and just wait for something to happen. For me, we lift it to God for Him to guide us in making wise decision. We should stand up and do our own best to overcome any trials that come our way. Thinking positively will help us go through.

The only thing that is hard is if you see your life as a big battlefield full of problems. It's your own attitude that makes life hard. Not the "problems" you might have on your path or you might have to solve/deal with. If you don't see a problem as a problem but just as an other experience your whole attitude and life style is different. You will be succesful and have way less stress and plenty of time left over to make the best out of your life.

The last line that you said says it all, we just need to think more positive, be happy and enjoy life 'though at times it is hard not to entertain negative thoughts, we still have the power to control and divert our attention into something more positive and great.

Yeah. There's a saying that don't take life seriously, nobody gets out of it alive. hehehehe. Leave all your problems to God because He knows what's best for you. There's a reason why we encounter problems in life. It's because without them, we won't grow and realize our mistakes.

I don't think we should leave all of our problems to God. The fact is God will not directly solve our problems. He will only show us the way to solve the problem. I have to say life's hardships generally bring the best in you. Later on in life, you will be better equipped to handle issues just because of what you've been through. Hardships make u stronger.. While one should always surround oneself with positive people, one has to face issues in life to emerge stronger & more experienced... wiser. I firmly believe in that as I have been down that road throughout my life.. Only now have I managed to settle down & understand exactly how to handle life's hardships....

I don't know what it is but so many young people feel depressed. There must be a reason for it. Is your home situation not good? Is your partner abusive? Are there other reasons for your depression? Until you first know what is is in the back of your mind bothering you, you can't go for help. Think why you are depressed. Is there an illness? Are you just generally unhappy?

we have great saints like Buddha who gave us the message that life is full of sorrows and the reason for sorrow is desire so if we control our desires we can respond well to those hardships one should realize that life is full of hardships and we need to go through these tough phase of life so that we can develop ourselves in to a better person. Those who enjoy life without understanding the hardships of life will not be able to recognize the value of life and to learn how one should consider the opportunity provided to him by god and to make the life worthwhile by providing some service to society to improve the life of common people . so learning process for the success of mankind could be met only through the bitter experiences only.