My husband doesn't give time for me

Better talk to your husband when he arrived on the weekends. Better ask him why he is not getting any connection with you during the breaks. In my opinion it is too much to require your husband to contact you during lunch breaks just to check on you. But it will be alright to call after office hours. One option, if he is not making any moves in getting connect with you, you must be the one to make the move. Try to contact him not during but after office hours. Not even during lunch breaks. I pressumed that you are just married that's why you are looking for him to check on you frequently.

"The idle mind is the Devil's workplace." My grandmother used to tell me that when I start worrying, thinking too much and just attracting negative vibes. If he doesn't love you, then he'd just go and leave you altogether and not come home anymore. If he doesn't love you, he wouldn't be working so hard. If he is cheating, then you'd certainly found out sooner or later. I don't really know what is happening in your household and marriage. But know that men in general don't really do what we like them to do. We think of them every minute and miss them - they do too but they'd rather work so that they wouldn't feel too 'emotional'. One suggestion that is good would be to go look for work. Do something that is productive and would give you too many things to do so that you would not be idle. He comes home once a week, that's the best opportunity for you to learn things, do things, make things so that when he sees you you'd be appreciative of your few moments together. I wouldn't be coming home to my partner if every time I see him he's a wreck. I'd like to come home to a beautiful home, a beautiful and contented partner. If you go crying your heart out each time, you'd look older and weary when he comes. Soon, he would start wondering why you don't appreciate his efforts. Go learn something, find productive things to do with your time. Find a job, look for other source of money. Learn to be a housewife better. Socialize with groups and friends to get tips and tricks that could make your house more 'homey'. Learn to keep the budget so that you could afford to go for vacations with him. Just don't sit there paranoid over something that might not be true. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

Hi there... It looks like it's a difficult arrangement. I can understand your concern. Communication is important. There must be other ways you can contact him. Does he use the computer? Maybe you can MSN him on the computer instead of contacting you on the cellphone. It is very hard to believe that companies do not allow the use of cellphones in the office, in this age of technology where the phone is the fastest way to get information. But having said that, I guess you have to make the move by calling him after office hours to ensure everything is okay on the other side. He has no excuse not to pick up the phone then right? Talk to him and I believe you will be able to sense if there is something different about him. Take note of it. Ensure multiple points of communication and contact. It's crucial to the survival of your marriage. And please do not accuse him of infidelity unless you have solid proof. I know it's hard to think positively when you are so far apart. But I do hope everything will be fine and there are opportunities for you guys to stay close. Maybe he can get a job near home instead or you could move near his workplace. All the best!

That's really sad friend because communication is important to those people in relationship. If no communication there is a possibility that each of you being cold. I hope you stay stronger and make way to have a constant contact with your husband

oh My God i think you should be patient with that condition and please avoid your jealous avoid your feeling now that your husband maybe cheat you. why you don`t trust him ??trust him, until you find there are wrong happened with your husband...

Oh, i understand your feeling, however you should be calm down, don't be sad. He maybe too busy and have no time for calling you yet. You can ask him later about it and let see what is his reason.

I am sure that is a difficult situation. I hope he is not cheating on you. Maybe he is just being a little self-centered and not giving enough thought to what your end of the arrangement is like. Rather than brooding about the calls that do not happen, make sure that when you do get to talk to him you make it very obvious how much that means to you. Wishing you happier days with more contentment coming soon.

just be a good wife to him. dont think too much especially about cheating. I know how you feel and i do understand you points. but try to start it from you, reach out to him and tell him how you feel not on how is he or what are his faults. I Bbelieve that communication is the best tool for everybody.

The best will be to talk to your husband, agree on a more healthier agreement which is to join him and close that gap. You are housewife, Ou should have joined him in the first instance, if maybe children were at school, then by year end you shoul have all joined him.

so glad to hear ur problem... by the way u have to understand his problems too. may he too suffer the same feeling as u felt. try to talk open with him. then u will get a relief.

i think its better to think posstive... why coz i also doing that.. n what i think is, better to finished my work as fast as i can, so i can go home n meet my wife rather than, using every time i have at break for calling but makes me loose a quality time for family coz it makes my work finish late due to the call n anything i do unimportant in working time

well maam, although communication is the best part of a relationship, you should also consider his work availability. or f you r in doubt just simply approach you husband i a nice manner and why he is not communicating with you. in their watch his actions any non-verbal cues that indicates lying such as no direct contact of eyes when telling his stories. that would be difficult but it can help you.