do not make mistakes

No one is perfect, my friend. All of us commit a mistake but that must not be intentional because doing so is not a mistakes but evil deeds... Do not be afraid about it, because no body's perfect. The important thing was being a faithful wife and do not commit any sin that is unforgivable...

I would never marry a man I was afraid of. And if I began to fear him after marriage I would seriously think about leaving him. I am sorry you live in a situation like this and in a community that you can't get help to gain some strength and self-esteem. I wish your situation was different.

I am very lucky to have a kind husband. The truth is he never gets angry, haha. Maybe he has a very long patience with it comes to me and my son or that he can manage his anger very much.

Hello indah, Yeah maybe its normal that we bit uneasy when our partner loss there temper and its good you are preventing that to happen,as of now I don't have any husband yet maybe I will feel that way too. I don't understand why your husband can't accept any reason when you have the valid reason.Is it your husband getting fierce with that? Well I hope everything is okay with you and your husband.Take care and Happy mylotting!

PS no I do not fear my (present) husband (or anyone) else. I think if it comes to fear they have way more reason to fear me if they really abuse me or are able to make me angry.

I had a husband like that.. first thought he was calling as a sign of love. But he called to check me out. So in the end I did not answer the phone anymore since there was nothing to tell him every 10 minutes! Also I felt a lot of stress because of the sound of the phone (good thimg at that time we did not had cellphones yet). Anyway.. I still don't carry my cellphone with me whole day. I am also not picking it up if the call is made by an unkmown person, if I am driving my car, if I am in a shop, talking already to someone else, etc. I have a phone in case of need to call a doctor or someone else. I don't let a phone(call) force me to drop/stop with everything I am doing. Also it's rude to make a phonecall if you are already talking to someone else and make that person wait. It's the same with making phonecalls in public. It's rude too and phonecalls should be private. I don't like to hear the private calls of someone else either outside on the street, in the shop or if I am in m garden. You should ask yourself why you are so afraid of your husband. If he never gave you a reason for that, the reason is probably in your childhood. Did your father or mother put a lot of pressure on you? Since mostly the way we are raised is the reason why we behave in a certain way. A way to get rid of your fear (for your husband) is to leave that phone at home and see what happens. If you find out your husband is not angry with you, you are able to beat that unnecessary fear.

I hate it when my husband is angry and he does have a short fuse. So, I skilfully steer away from his path. If he is just allowed to be himself with no pressure from outside he won't come my way at all; but if someone treads on his toe we have had it. So, I try not to make him angry at all.

I'm not married, but I would've never married a guy that I was afraid of that...

I used to fear my husband. Its horrible to have to live that way. Makes you get sick in the stomach with ulsers from stress. He drank alot and would beat me alot. I took the money he gave me to pay for food and bought a bus ticket back to my family 1,000 miles away. I had my baby son with me too. We excaped him. I was afraid after i left for awhile too because i thought he would come after me to hurt me. He never did and we got a divorce. My son is now 36. I have been divorced for 35 years now.

Yes, there are days that I tread lightly, but it is not constant or to the same degree that you fear. Could it be that in the USA women have more rights than in your country?

It's the other way around for me my friend. I'm afraid if my wife gets angry but I like it too becuase I can always hide behind her skirt .

Has your husband ever scolded you or lose his temper whenever you didn't reply his messages or answer his call immediately? If he does, it's a form of control. He's trying to control your every movement and that's not healthy for the marriage. Marriage is about trust. If his reasons to you are, care, concerned to you, it's way too much that it's suffocating you. You have to talk to him, make him understand that you can't always be by the phone 24 hours a day. There are times where you can be really busy and he's calling at the wrong time.

Well my father is a business man. So he has to visit a lot of places for his needs. So he used to contact us all the time and my he used to call on my land line or in my mobile phone. So if we are out if just calls on mobile and when we are at home he rings at land line. So he can get us all the time which he wants and there are on much problems for it.

i think in today's generation there is no necessary to afraid off with the husband because in between the wife and husband their should we love and trust . and especially the good understanding between each other . so if there is no such kind of things means there is not a real life exists and there is no love and happiness is exists between them so it is better to talk openly and act according to the situation and be happy . both of them should not be fear or afraid each other you should fear only when you should done a mistake

I am a husband. I was never angry at my wife, rather grumbling, of course there is the cause. Really, I do not like my wife got scared because I complained. Fear makes people can not think properly.

Sorry to hear about this. I am thankful my ex is not an angry person. He always have a reason behind if ever I am not able to reply his text message that soon. He always have a space for explanation. Maybe some people are just too suspicious, un-patient and irritable.

You may (I think you need to) worry but not to fear. Keep the good terms, but do not afraid. if something goes wrong, when you make a mistake, apologize. I think you really need a heart to heart talk with your husband when there's something wrong. Do what you think you need to do.

I am sorry to hear that my friend. I think, you should try to learn how not to be afraid of your husband. He is your husband so he should understand whatever your situation is when you are not able to response at once to his call or SMS.

If I did nothing wrong I will not feel scared. Most of the time he is the one who always makes mistake that's why we always end up with a fight. I don't know if he feel scares with me because I'm really scary when I'm angry. I don't like him to feel that way I just want him to respect the things that would make me angry so that we will not fight anymore.

No, I do not fear if my soon to be husband is angry because I do not reply to a text. He understands if I am busy, or away from my phone. He would be worried if I did not call or text or show up the next day. I doubt he would be mad, more worried if anything. I am sorry that you feel your husband would be angry at you for this. I think you should talk to him about your fears and maybe that will ease you. He probably has no idea how you feel about this matter.