hear sad songs..

They have passed. When my mind starts to wonder back to the times when they were still alive, I try to think of the good things that they give to me. It was alot harder to do that at first...I think I lost a little of myself each time I lost one of them but I find great comfort now in thinking of the moments that we had together. I like thinking of things that they said or things that they did.

@jenin : iam sorry for that...so maybe sometimes we regret that we can`t give the best for them who had left us...sometimes we think it is late because our careless.. sometimes..so do the best for the lovely people in around us which still alive..so we don`t regret anymore.. @hopefulman : please explain to me about God`s memory in your respond..i did not get the point...

where is your grandparents Jenin?? so when you are sad, what are you doing??

i see.. maybe because i miss my grandfather else.. he passed away 2 days ago... so it make me sad

thats right else.. thanks for encouraging me.. it really touch me..

I can understand.Actually sad songs reflect your grief that you had having lost your dear grandfather.That's natural.I share your pain.I have not seen my grand parents.They were expired long before my birth.And then I lost my parents and know what it means.I am with you,my dear friend.

typo *not* now

it was okay lyn.. thanks for your shympathy.. thanks you very much

thanks for it 1hopefulman.. thanks for sending message too in my expertscolumn.. he is the uncle of my mother.. and iam really closely with the grandfather even he stay in another city with my family...

thanks lovinang..what is your nickname, so i can call you more easier.. i really appreciate your shympathy for me and my grandfather... wow..i really like braveheart movies..it tell about scotland history and culture.. mel gibson play good in that movies.. i am always watching and watching if braveheart was played in television...

sue, thanks again for your motivation.. yes, the music in braveheart always touch our heart..i believe your heart was touched down too by braveheart music... is it true the story of william wallace??

Hiya adhyz, You can shorten the username to anything you like I don´t mind why should I? My real name I don´t much care for so People call me Sue for short. That´s okay having a Grandfather and Grandmother is a cornerstone of our lives they must be there how would we be without them? He must be a really special Grandfather to you. I refer to the music of Braveheart as it is very moving emotionally you see it moves very deep if you let it. Very beautiful Story of William Wallace and many people Worldwide have taken to it as their own as well. Mel Gibson played him very well and considering he is not Scottish well the accent is superb to say the least. Love Mel Gibson as an Actor no matter what the Film he is in. Also liked the very wicked King Longshanks played by the late Patrick McGoohan as well he was brilliant at his very best. He wrote and acted in a Television Series that has become a Landmark in Great Britain and also Worldwide.xxx Hope you feel better now.xxx

maybe one time we should hear sad song it doesn`t mean add our sadness when we are sad.. it is not exactly like that

i understand your pain sista.. be patient sista.. be patient..

hai too alvaro.. how are you?? some of us make music as their alternative when their soul get problems.. they can feel relax when hearing music.. maybe it will happens to you too

yes..sometimes i hear josh groban song.. it really touch me when iam so sad... thanks for your prayer

yes tknonlivnene..how are you?? are you sad now too??

thanks for it sanitary.. of course..he always be in my heart.. we live in different areas..but it did not change that iam lost when he passed away..

yeah thewonderboy thanks for your kindness.. i really miss him. he lives in surabaya, 2,5 hours flight from my city.. but every time i live his city, i must visit my Grandfather home.. my father do like i do too...