What to do if you find out that your boyfriend is a gay?

@ritchel (842)
Philippines
May 18, 2012 12:18pm CST
If you are on this situation, what would you do? Should you break up with him or what? Or if you think that he is gay...
4 responses
lakantar
@lakantar (1573)
• Greece
19 May 12
Well if I had a boyfriend I'd probably be gay. :P hahaha (Guy here)
lakantar
@lakantar (1573)
• Greece
28 May 12
that was pretty much my intention :P
stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
19 May 12
lakantar..LOL..that made me smile
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stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
18 May 12
ritchel..I would ask him if he is gay..though that might be awkward. It would be the honesty issue that would worry me the most. Personally I would not want my boyfriend to be gay...now if I were a gay guy I might feel differently
ritchel
@ritchel (842)
• Philippines
18 May 12
He would not answer me directly. But I have a feeling...:(
stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
19 May 12
ritchel How much does it bother you? Personally it would bother me...since I am not gay I would want someone who is gay to follow their heart and feelings and not deny their true feelings. I am not sure how I would feel about bi..I have never thought of that...
smoke_gun
@smoke_gun (1243)
• Malaysia
22 May 12
bend him back to be straight,if he fail,just dump it and looking for a new boyfriend,unless you don't mind he is gay.
Suebee
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
19 May 12
If he is gay why is he with you? It is not a problem in this day and age if a person is gay, but I don't understand him being in a relationship with a woman if he is gay. Is he denying his true identity? Is he afraid of "coming out"? If he is gay and in a heterosexual relationship is that not living a lie? It's not fair to you for him to stay in a relationship with you if he is gay.