sharing problems with a stranger

May 18, 2012 8:08pm CST
I don't know what is here in mylot but it really helps me a lot in openning up with my problems which can help me a lot to release negative vibes. I'm sure a lot of people here in mylot do this too.
7 responses
@riempie9 (1021)
• South Africa
21 May 12
The reason you are feeling good about discussing your problems here at MyLot is that it provides a platform for those who want to talk about issues or problems without being judged. You cannot tell everything to a friend, not even a best friend. On a platform like MyLot no one knows the other person and there is a kind of freedom to talk and know that what you have chosen to share with us here will not be discussed with anyone. Isn't that the best kind of psychologist's couch? Where you can get the answers and it can be about anything?
22 May 12
well said riempie9. That's why I really enjoy my free time by just being here on Mylot.
@ivade0000 (225)
• France
5 Jul 12
I do agree with it since it happens to me all the times. Somehow, I find it easier to discuss my problem with stranger on the internet rather than asking some advice from my friends or family. When we chat with stranger, we will give some sincere advice without any emotional influence, which is not the case with those advice given by friends. Friends, on the other hand, maybe lie about something in order to comfort you and I find it bad to do so. Although I do know their good intention, I still have the right to know everything about my problems no matter how bad it is.
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@chan2zexy (508)
• Philippines
21 May 12
myLot is such a great venue to be able to share anything and everything under the sun, except for explicit contents maybe. I feel the same way as you do. I am able to share and learn from other people's posts too. =)
21 May 12
You're right chan2zexy, learning from another's person experience help us to be stronger knowing that if a person can face that kind of challenge and be able to overcome it we too can do it.
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
19 May 12
Hello friend welcome to mylot. The difference between mylot and other site is we get solution for our confusion and questions. Many people are here to help us voluntarily. It forms a good group of friends when days pass. Have a good day.
19 May 12
yeah I feel great that I came across this site. It's good to be able to give advise to someone who needs it, and at the same time be given with advises with the people who have the same experience.
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
6 Jun 12
Yeah right, sharing both experience and advice is good here.
• Philippines
19 May 12
Thanks to mylot I have able release my tensions by sharing all my ill feelings because right now I am mentally and emotionally bothered. Thanks for the compliment..
21 May 12
This is really a good site. I hope things will be better for you soon. Everything happens for a reason and lets use MyLot to help us be a stronger person.
• Philippines
19 May 12
You know what.. I think the good thing about here is that you could open up that sometimes really hard to do to some friends, the good thing is [if being anonymous is the only way for you to open up...well...mylot really helps.
21 May 12
Maybe one of the good things of sharing personal problems with a stranger is that they are just there to listen and not broadcast everything they know to the world to humiliate and insult you.
• Philippines
21 May 12
yes..exactly!sometimes we are ashame of sharing our problems or we have difficulties of expressing it in a way that is more understandable...that sometimes we prefer to share it to strangers...
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
26 Mar 13
Hi, You are right. I also have this experience. When I am not in mood or have some problem I start working on mylot and try to get the solution by discussing with mylot friends. I can get solution to my problem fro mylot friends. It is a site where we share our happy and sad feelings with strangers. But some days after they become our friends.