Is it okey to commit to someone who you never meet in person?
@sweetplayer10512 (44)
Philippines
10 responses
@sweetplayer10512 (44)
• Philippines
19 May 12
Yeah...I hope too, because I think one of the bittersweet in this relationship is that we know each other too well before we meet...:).. thank you
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
19 May 12
Nope I have never tried and not sure if I will try. I don't givemy trust to easily on someone I met online if the person says he likes or loves me. It's different with just friends I meet online. But it will depend on how both of you communicate with each other. Goodluck!
@sweetplayer10512 (44)
• Philippines
20 May 12
Well...there are still kinda negative side in every relationship and things may not turn out as we want. I will just hope for the best...thank you..:)
@edisonbanglos (389)
• Philippines
19 May 12
I am into a long distance relationship too and I am not yet sure about it. It's difficult because you can be sure that your partner will stay faithful and can be trusted. I think it would good if you stay with each other even just for months.
@sweetplayer10512 (44)
• Philippines
19 May 12
I think your right, its really bit hard but i just hope for the best as well...in terms of fidelity well...I think if he cant handle that in just few months he dont deserve someone who love him but someone who wanna just play with him.
@rewardsinlife (1132)
• United States
19 May 12
This can be very dangerous to do this, especially after only 6 months. Let me give you an example...I have been talking to someone online for over 9 months and was going to ask if he wanted to take the next step into a relationship. However, I waited because I noticed he was going through a bit of stress. Next thing I know, he has gone awol from the Navy and basically went beserk. Glad I never gave him my address or number. You just never know.
@sweetplayer10512 (44)
• Philippines
19 May 12
Awww that is so sad to hear..:(.. well I guess it depends to the people involve and the situation since not everyone is the same.. But because of what you share i will just cross my finger and be more extra cautious as well.. Thank you..
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Oct 15
Well it is difficult for me to do so,i love it when i know the person physically
@GemmaR (8517)
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25 May 12
I don't think that you should ever allow yourself to be this close to somebody that you have never met. The truth is that people can be whoever they wish behind a computer screen, and this means that there is every chance that you would never be able to know the true person. If you committed to them before you met them, then you might find that you didn't like them in real life and this would mean that you would be more likely to fall out with them and end the relationship. You should always meet someone in person before you decide that they're the one for you.
@ravipors (80)
• India
28 May 12
No please never do this. I was in similar situation some years ago. I thought we were the best match. But later I met him personally he was so different from what he was online. I do not refer to the physical appearance but habits, character etc. When I finally understood this, I broke that relationship and that was painful. So never fall for the person who you do not know personally. This may sound a bit harsh but it can avoid later problems.
@lafredricktaylor (256)
• United States
22 May 12
I honestly think that no matter where you meet, if its meant to be, it will be. i had my share of online dates myself. i quickly learned that everyone you meet on there..that picture is really not them. so if i seen someone i thought was attractive, immediately arranged a meeting..in a public place or something like that. because i didnt want to fall for a creative writer..so once we met for a few times, thats when i begin to let my guard down. Because even as a man, online dating can be dangerous. not all occurrences will be bad..but never would i go that long and put that time and effort into someone i cant see. but please dont get me wrong, im not saying its not going to work, jus saying, be careful.
@aritahime (221)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
Wow.. So you two never meet face to face before? Do you trust him? What if he isn't honest to you? Well, that's just my negative thinking about having an online relationship. I hope he is honest and not disappointing you later. Good luck sista ^^